Ditto.Originally Posted by Cyclops
It depends what it is. If it's something practical where I can do something, then yeah, i'll tend to try.
If the person is crying or being hyper emotional, I don't know what to do and figure i'm best staying out their way, best I can usually say is, "eh, what's wrong", and sort of pat them on the shoulder or something, mostly though it leaves me feeling somewhat bewilidered.
What do you have to cry about? Surely it can't be that bad (see, I tried just there, so make of that what you will). On thinking about it in past (it's been a long time since i've been around someone crying) I could actually imagine myself saying "stop crying", which sounds kinda horrible I suppose but my intention is that if they stop crying then they will feel better and I am more able to talk to them to assist them in some fashion, if need be. (lol @ that reasoning).
Please stop worrying about things that aren't true. (see, I tried again).
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