Hey, so, I have a friend (dating an ILE) and I'm trying to determine if he's SEI or EII. My first intuition was SEI. He VIs SEI and he can be very emotionally expressive. In fact, one of the reasons I thought Fe-creative for him is because, like me, he is very emotionally expressive (big facial expressions and the like) in general interaction, but when he is concentrating on something, he isn't as emotionally expressive.
I'm certain he's either SEI or EII because he *clearly* doesn't value Se, is a clear introvert, and is a clear feeling type.
My big question is: how do SEIs deal with conflict, and to what degree are they interested in "everybody getting along"? I thought SEI for this guy because of the reasons given above, especially the bit about not valuing Se, and because he's in a very happy relationship (it seems) with an ILE. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that he's very interested in keeping people happy, keeping tempers down, keeping things calm, etc. Now, I know this can be associated somewhat with Si (relaxation and such), but it can also be related to Fi and Se polr. So... thoughts?