Emotional side and expression of ILIs-INTps

[Jarno]

Really? I read that as Fi-polr, actually. Maybe similarly inappropriate (i.e., not accomplishing one's goals with regards to interpersonal relations) behavior but inappropriate in different ways? But I do agree that what I said is more of a potential consequence of Fe-polr, not the primary manifestation thereof.

I don't like talking or defining IM. But what I often read is that Fe is defined consisting out of 2 things:

1 emotions in self and others
2 what roles people should play in a group

The number 2 thing was what I was referring to.

[717495]

This is a good start, I like it. It definitely goes with Fe-PoLR and Fi for me. I need that someone to channel my social aspect through, and present my real self, instead of being just socially awkward and shy. There is nothing like being with your best friend and being a totally different person than who you usually come across as. My father is surprized by how differently I react toward various people. Usually these are my closest friends and family members. Often I am very cold on the outside. If I do become socially warm towards strangers, it is usually because I have been talking with them, and I got to see who they're all about, if they come across as good or bad people, if they like me too, etc. It is all about the person. Sometimes when I'm really thinking about someone, I can tend to act like them.

[silverchris9]

Oh, good, I'm glad gammas are responding positively to this, because it helps me to defend my ILI typing for Wallace Stevens. Happyface.

[Mediator Kam]

I wanna be ILI.

[Gilly]

Sometimes when I'm really thinking about someone, I can tend to act like them.

Textbook Fe seeking.

[717495]

Textbook Fe seeking.

You're writing for socionics now Gilly? Let me know how it goes. Send me a copy.

[FreelancePoliceman]

Textbook Fe seeking.

Really. I embarrassingly do this often; I never made the connection.