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    What does a depressed SEE look like? Either subtype....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Khamelion View Post
    What does a depressed SEE look like? Either subtype....

    Se subtype: Angry

    Fi subtype: Angry

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    I know a couple that complained a lot about being tired. Haven't met any seriously depressed yet, probably because they seem to 'put things away' (block things out) and carry on with life.

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    looks like you probably. well, they tend to look anorexic too..
    err.. kind of ambivalent looking.

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    Not sure really. I know one of my SEE friends got really frustrated with life events. Maybe that is an SEEs form, frustration, rather than depression. He would complain a lot about how it sucked a lot but still manage to throw some positive thoughts in haha.

    Do you think you are a depressed SEE? or think you know one?
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    i think i could be one, assuming im SEE. i normally dont doubt being SEE unless im depressed.





    i can block things out, ive done it a lot. but i think i've exhausted the ability...
    i do sleep a lot, because things that i think are fun i don't even want to do, sort of a punishment....

    im always angry when im depressed lol. who wouldn't be?

    i keep myself uncomfortable because it's distracting. its kinda....disturbing? lol

    i could go on but im pretty eccentric to begin with so its hard to say what is SEE related and what is related to neurosis.
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    I knew a depressed SEE. Said he was becoming introverted. Stayed home and watched movies. Moped. Ate snacks. Did that for quite a while. Didn't really want to go out (since he was always the life of the party). Got depressed no one was inviting him out (despite the fact he always got his social group together
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    Khamelion, you should try reading a nonfictional book. Tell me if that helps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Khamelion View Post
    i think i could be one, assuming im SEE. i normally dont doubt being SEE unless im depressed.





    i can block things out, ive done it a lot. but i think i've exhausted the ability...
    i do sleep a lot, because things that i think are fun i don't even want to do, sort of a punishment....

    im always angry when im depressed lol. who wouldn't be?

    i keep myself uncomfortable because it's distracting. its kinda....disturbing? lol

    i could go on but im pretty eccentric to begin with so its hard to say what is SEE related and what is related to neurosis.
    Hmmm, seems it is serious. Just a suggestion -- could you write out clearly what is bothering you? Best would be if you could talk to people who know and understand you and your points of view.
    Don't limit your understanding of what you are feeling to match the Socionics concept of what SEEs should be/feel like. Go to people you are close to, you will certainly feel better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AQ View Post
    Hmmm, seems it is serious.
    nah, this isn't lasting, just a period like everyone has once in a while.

    But SEE's don't tolerate being depressed, just like they don't tolerate depressed people for a long time. They like to be happy and have happy people around them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Khamelion View Post
    i do sleep a lot, because things that i think are fun i don't even want to do, sort of a punishment....
    Why don't you want to do things you think are fun?

    Have you tried doing something you think is fun despite not wanting to? If so, how did you feel?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Khamelion View Post
    What does a depressed SEE look like? Either subtype....

    (She's covering it up.)
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    You've done yourself a huge favor developmentally by mustering the balls to do something really fucking scary... in about the most vulnerable situation possible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Through my experience they'll either become a lot more emotionally distant, or very emotionally dependent. The ones I know tend to drown their problems with alcohol. When my best friend (SEE) moved away, she became incredibly depressed and would call me every night to help herself fall asleep; I think she just enjoyed the comfort my Ni, or something.
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    Yeah me too. Scarlett Johansson as an avatar is actually one of the better ideas coming from this forum. I'll think about it.

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