Originally Posted by
FreelancePoliceman
Reviving this since I’m curious what people have to say.
When I’m close to an SO, I like to become playful, obedient, and trusting. I want to feel cared for and loved, and express my own feelings by dedication and enthusiasm.
In bed I like to be guided and told what to do; making my partner happy makes me feel happy — like a child receiving the approval of their parent, I suppose. I’m not naturally inclined to sensuality, so I don’t have a good “intuitive” understanding of what feels best for my partner, which is why I prefer to be guided. I might also do unexpected things to surprise my partner.