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    Quote Originally Posted by Ssmall View Post
    If I will have enough patience ill try to translate it in the next few days, no promises though, I'm not famous for following through.


    Thanks for the links, the second one doesn't appear to be working though

    I suppose only the second post I added is fairly new than...

    btw why the emotion? Were you agreeing or disagree with what the article stated?
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    Fourth quadra: "Holmes (Stirlitz, LSE), Watson(Dostoyevsky, EII), Gaben (SLI) and Huxley (IEE).

    Playful behaviour, laughter, tingling of partner etc. all of this is included into sexual program of Delta quadra. Holmes shows more energy but less creativity in order to shake up shy Watson and is less restrained in comparison to Gaben. Gaben himself, while saving energy, along with his dual shows more creativity, both of them look at it as

    great art. It is characteristic for Huxley women to have twisty, coquettish and cat-like movements. Greatly impacted by outside stimulus - films, literature, music. The soft spot of Huxley is compassion: partner can succeed by talking about their suffering/problems. In such situation Huxley becomes gentle, feels great need to bring relief.

    at least to someone. By the way another nickname for "Huxley" is "Don Giovanni": he can successfully court a woman but at the last moment can shy away from intimacy. Only his dual "Gaben" or activator "Holmes" can take the initiative into their own hands.

    Caring woman or Woman-mother.
    (Stirlitz, Gabin)

    Inclined to take care of their male partner. Attracted to weak but intelligent men who obey her in everyday matters. She enjoys to protect, support and cheer them up. Character traits which are not respected in theese men in public mind, this woman either forgives or considers acceptable.

    "Infantile" woman, or woman-daughter
    (Dostoevsky, Huxley)

    The ideal for this woman is a man who is goodnatured, experienced and well adapted to real life, usually older than her. In such man's presence she feel like a little girl who is totally dependent on him. In love games prefers psychological factor - open/intimate talk, fitting music, the creation of conditions for relaxation. Above all values forgiveness and care.

    Caring man or Man-father
    (Stirlitz, Gaben)

    Partner who is experienced and attentive to the spiritual world of a woman, able to draw her to him by caring/protective courtship. In love games greatly values feminine tenderness, awaits admiration for his life experience and skill.

    "Infantile" man, or man-son
    (Dostoevsky, Huxley)

    Dependent, naive in wordly affairs, expects work-related and emotional support from a woman. Involuntarily emphasizes his lack of attention, lost abilities, inadequacy for real life struggles. In women respects experience and responsiveness to his problems.

    Caring woman

    Does not accept from a man strong but coarse caresses. Forceful erotic play which is deprived of foreplay diminishes her sexuality, for this reason men-supermen disappoint her. Behaviour of a man who is compatible with her has to be infantile-like, ie timid, hopingly inviting. Such woman loves caresses which are expressed in childlike strength, gentle touches of erogenous zones. Relationship with a Victim does not satisfy her as his capriciousness, tricks and provoking of force surprise her and repel. Relationship with caring men with identical psycho-sexual desires also in time disappoints her, although in principle she does not have anything against it. Sooner or later among all that comfort surrounding her she will feel a lack of spirituality.

    "Infantile" woman (child)

    In erotic life of women of this type most importance is for subtle caresses and psychology of relationship. She demonstrates fragility and childish naivety with her actions without having any special intentions. Infantile woman easily accepts affairs and hobbies of a man she is attracted to. In love games she with pleasure accepts the initiative of Caregiver man by showing her own finesse and imagination. For supermen ie men of Agressor type, such woman obviously shows interest but getting closer to them is afraid due to their instinctivness and roughness. Men of Victim type satisfy her only partially: starts romantically but then leads to misunderstandings about with his displays of suffering and unpredictability. With Infantile men she will definitely feel discomfort due to lack of care about her daily needs. Such pair will have alienation slowly growing.


    More to come...Please comment on sentences you find difficult to read. After I'm done with this Ill work on EII-LSE part as it seems there is little talk about this dual pair in here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ssmall View Post
    .....
    In erotic life of women .....
    heheheh, you said erotic.

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    hehehe...I also said erogenous zones.
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    lol, you did too.

    Nominate this thread as NSFW, lol.

    Edit: Good work with the translation

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    Wow that just makes the IEE male sound pathetic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wrong Way Ticket View Post
    Wow that just makes the IEE male sound pathetic.
    Where is it wrong though?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ssmall View Post
    Caring woman or Woman-mother.
    (Stirlitz, Gabin)

    Inclined to take care of their male partner. Attracted to weak but intelligent men who obey her in everyday matters. She enjoys to protect, support and cheer them up. Character traits which are not respected in theese men in public mind, this woman either forgives or considers acceptable.
    hahahaha!!! wow...

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    Sweet, I'm a weak yet intelligent, and highly submissive man! So there is hope for Gul

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo View Post
    hahahaha!!! wow...
    What's weird about that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    What's weird about that?
    Having someone tell me what to do every day would be a nightmare for me at least. I'm an independent person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo View Post
    Having someone tell me what to do every day would be a nightmare for me at least. I'm an independent person.
    In everyday matters...as in "elbows off the table," "push that chair in," and "get your shoes out of the hallway." Little things bug you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie84 View Post
    Thanks for the links, the second one doesn't appear to be working though

    I suppose only the second post I added is fairly new than...

    btw why the emotion? Were you agreeing or disagree with what the article stated?
    It reminds me of some EIIs I know, particularly in terms of their interaction with me.
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
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    I realize that part of the attraction to EIIs is that they seem like very grounded people who can give me unfiltered moral advice. That's really what I'm looking for, but it's hard to trust that people can really be what I need, even though it's what I actually want.
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
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    ~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ryu View Post
    I realize that part of the attraction to EIIs is that they seem like very grounded people who can give me unfiltered moral advice. That's really what I'm looking for, but it's hard to trust that people can really be what I need, even though it's what I actually want.
    You need someone that will whoop your ass, that's what you need.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lobo View Post
    You need someone that will whoop your ass, that's what you need.
    touché
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    Or, perhaps, that is actually case in point. Hmmm......

    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

    ~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
    ~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.

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