Gilly's Type

[Gilly]

I'm not going to pretend I can't see where you're coming from, but I'm not really an extrotim in any sense. I could restate my reasons for thinking this over and over again but it probably wouldn't change your opinion.

[JuJu]

Gilly, I KNOW you'll get your type correct when you start dating (and accurately identify) your dual... Suddenly all of this will make sense...

That's what happened to me.

After I identified my dual--and it was OBVIOUS after just weeks together--I wanted to 'mea culpa' to this forum for all the bullshit I took part in spreading before I understood my type. (I no longer stand by what I wrote here before that, as I didn't fully understand Socionics in practice.)

After this, all of the other inter-type relations began to fall, slowly, into place... After that, I was able to build a reliable database of types, etc.

It all began with, "holy fuck! This is it..! Duality." It was unmistakable.

[strrrng]

You sound like an eHarmony commercial.

[redbaron]

You sound like an eHarmony commercial.

[redbaron]

I wonder if eharmony could use a socionics consult on their staff. hmmmm....

[Kim]

I wonder if eharmony could use a socionics consult on their staff. hmmmm....

I came to this board because they matched me with an INTj and I was confused, so yes! :wink:

[xyz]

Gilly, I KNOW you'll get your type correct when you start dating (and accurately identify) your dual... Suddenly all of this will make sense...

That's what happened to me.

After I identified my dual--and it was OBVIOUS after just weeks together--I wanted to 'mea culpa' to this forum for all the bullshit I took part in spreading before I understood my type. (I no longer stand by what I wrote here before that, as I didn't fully understand Socionics in practice.)

After this, all of the other inter-type relations began to fall, slowly, into place... After that, I was able to build a reliable database of types, etc.

It all began with, "holy fuck! This is it..! Duality." It was unmistakable.

I thought duality was so easy to miss specifically because at first it never just feels like that.

[redbaron]

I thought duality was so easy to miss specifically because at first it never just feels like that.

yeah it took me a LONG time to recognize duality. Years (but I was still learning about socionics so that was part of the problem).

[JuJu]

You sound like an eHarmony commercial.

feelin bitter, little guy..? What I'm reading from you lately is a mixture of bitterness/desperately trying to make yourself look 'cool' on the internet... Which is pretty fuckin weak, strrrng... I'm sorry your life sucks so bad, or w/e, that you feel you need to.. "Over-compensate" is one word I've seen you use before.

re: red baron and LokiVanguard...I didn't recognize duality until I was in a romantic relationship with my dual... At the time, it was an extremely comfortable relationship... But I didn't recognize its duality until we moved apart... Then I realized I couldn't live without this girl... We still talk... I know I'll always love her, even if we can't be together due to distance.

[Gilly]

I thought duality was so easy to miss specifically because at first it never just feels like that.

Yeah. By normal standards your dual is supposed to seem like a very "normal" person, because in a sense they are everything you "assume" someone else should be.

[strrrng]

feelin bitter, little guy..? What I'm reading from you lately is a mixture of bitterness/desperately trying to make yourself look 'cool' on the internet... Which is pretty fuckin weak, strrrng... I'm sorry your life sucks so bad, or w/e, that you feel you need to.. "Over-compensate" is one word I've seen you use before.

Yeah, keep presuming motives to deflect criticisms that point out how pathetically transparent you are; it doesn't change anything.

[ArchonAlarion]

Well, being socially retarded and relationally handicapped, I didn't have any clear idea of what I wanted in a person before socionics.

A few years ago I probably would have said "I'm attracted to quiet, artsy girls who could appreciate/particpate in my geeky interests."

That sort of covers ISFp, INFp, and INFj, I guess.

I spot duality pretty easy now...

[Jarno]

Gilly, I KNOW you'll get your type correct when you start dating (and accurately identify) your dual... Suddenly all of this will make sense...

After this, all of the other inter-type relations began to fall, slowly, into place... After that, I was able to build a reliable database of types, etc.

good post. relationships are the best way to confirm your selftyping. Though you need to be in a couple of relationships so you can compare them better.

[Gilly]

This is stupid. I'm IEI and you can all go to hell.

[xyz]

No dude you're ENFj. Accept it.

[Gilly]

Fuck off.

[thePirate]

yeah, this attitudes really getting you somewhere

[xyz]

That's no way to discuss your type!
I see all signs pointing to ENFj.

[Gilly]

yeah, this attitudes really getting you somewhere

Sometimes, I'll read a post written by you, and this wave of serenity immediately washes over me, because I know for sure there will definitely always be someone out there who will always find something to be a petty little bitch about. And that's a comforting feeling, you know, because then I have that certainty that twenty, fifty, maybe a hundred years down the line, the government will hire people like me to kill people like you.

[Gilly]

That's no way to discuss your type!
I see all signs pointing to ENFj.

Maybe we should meet up.

[strrrng]

Invitation declined.

[Gilly]

lol

[xyz]

Maybe we should meet up.

I'm good, thanks.

[Gilly]

I'm good, thanks.

I once gave a man an orgasm just by looking at him.

[07490]

I'm good, thanks.

are you too chicken to meet up?

[xyz]

are you too chicken to meet up?

The opposite, in fact. I'm afraid I couldn't control my urge to smack him around.

[strrrng]

Numbers, you should understand the aristocracy.

[Gilly]

The opposite, in fact. I'm afraid I couldn't control my urge to smack him around.

Now we're talking. Be a dear and bring some KY.

[07490]

The opposite, in fact. I'm afraid I couldn't control my urge to smack him around.

You could, you know, pay him a visit. to release your urge. But you're too chicken. Chicken. buckbuck-buckaw

[Gilly]

He's just afraid he'd have to keep coming back for more.

[xyz]

You guys crack me up. When you're not pissing me off.

[Gilly]

We do our best.

[07490]

You guys crack me up. When you're not pissing me off.

I only said that because it seems fitting since those were the exact words you told me when I should meet a forum member.

[Gilly]

Numbers you're freaking hilarious man, you crack me the fuck up. That buckaw thing made me do the wide-mouthed silent laugh.

[07490]

Numbers, you should understand the aristocracy.

? what?

[somavision]

How are you an introvert? Socionically or otherwise.
I'm not saying you're definately not, butr just from your posts and the way that you have this forum and everything about you really, I'm just struggling to see it.

You strike me as an initiator (at this point< I would like to apologise for my grasmmer spelling etc. I'm a littlel fucked and can't be aresed to check stuff)

but seriously are you an introvert by any measure?
Because you are such a god damn attention seeker and i don't mean that in a bad way it's just the way you seem to me.
But then again maybe I'm showing my ignorance, but you strike me as being more JuJU than B&D.
Anyhoo, you don't seem like a dickhead or anything, so at least you got that going for you.

[thePirate]

Sometimes, I'll read a post written by you, and this wave of serenity immediately washes over me, because I know for sure there will definitely always be someone out there who will always find something to be a petty little bitch about. And that's a comforting feeling, you know, because then I have that certainty that twenty, fifty, maybe a hundred years down the line, the government will hire people like me to kill people like you.

Petty? This is hardly petty, you are an administrator on a socionics forum who parades his typings around like he's some sort of god, yet his own self-typing is yet to be identified.

Don't blame me for your repulsive attitude, thats all you.

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

But then again maybe I'm showing my ignorance, but you strike me as being more JuJU than B&D.

Can you elaborate on what you mean by that? Like what am I like that Gilly isn't like. I am just intrigued and I like to hear others perceptions about me. ;p

[ArchonAlarion]

yes because JuJu is fucking ENFp 3w2 which is pretty fucking close to gilly

fuckity fuck fuck balls

[Gilly]

Petty? This is hardly petty, you are an administrator on a socionics forum who parades his typings around like he's some sort of god, yet his own self-typing is yet to be identified.

Don't blame me for your repulsive attitude, thats all you.

It's not even worth my time to decry the legitimacy of any of my typings, let alone that of myself, to you. Go stick your face in a pile of dog shit and stop breathing.