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    Quote Originally Posted by thePirate View Post
    how do you gauge sexual attraction?
    I don't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I don't.
    Do you ever feel naive about stuff like that?



    how do you gauge sexual attraction?
    There are a lot of different kinds of it. The easy way, in regard to myself, is simply how appealing or arousing I find someone.

    It's not complicated.

    Intuitors who "aren't that way" are not really any different, they just have various issues dealing with it or ways of rationalizing their own attraction or sexual feelings about other people.
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

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    I make eye contact. If she holds it, I go up to her. If she looks down, I wait.

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    I check for boners.
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    Quote Originally Posted by munenori2 View Post
    I check for boners.
    same!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I don't.
    Unless you're asexual (not possessing sexual feelings) this seems odd. Perhaps you misunderstood the question?

    She's basically asking: how do you determine when you're attracted to someone as well as tell if someone is attracted to you
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie84 View Post
    Unless you're asexual (not possessing sexual feelings) this seems odd. Perhaps you misunderstood the question?

    She's basically asking: how do you determine when you're attracted to someone as well as tell if someone is attracted to you
    I analyze my feelings and ask myself questions to determine how attracted I am to someone. Once I realize I am, I'm pretty much stuck being somewhat interested in the person's well-being for the rest of my life.
    sp/sx: Others can be taken aback by how suddenly and completely this type can lock into them

    The second part can be difficult. Being told is of course the easiest way, though that can get annoying if it's repeated too much. I compare them to me and why I may act the way they do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    I can easily understand interest from my dual. Pretty bad at understanding interest from every other type.
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