I'm definately not a big fan of dating. One way to scare me away quick is to ask me out on a date! Want to go forward, just be my friend. If I'm interested I'll eventually let you know and we'll go from there.

I have never "chased" a guy in my life and would rather be single the rest of my life than yet another bad relationship.

I find people want to take things too fast or too slow. It seems hard to meet someone who goes at my speed.

The whole "dating" thing confuses me too. Some people think if you go out on a date or two than you are actually in some kind of committed relationshp. I would be uncomfortable too if someone I was "dating" was dating other people too.

So for the most part I just tell people lets just be friends and do the coffee thing to get to know each other better. No strings attached.

Apparently my tactics aren't working though because I'm still single.