Why are IEI and SLE good for one another? (INFp and ESTp)

[Rubicon]

It's true. INFps are selfish. (:

Always posting in tiny font makes me think you're whispering or really shy. :-P

Err sorry.. carry on!

[1981slater]

Always posting in tiny font makes me think you're whispering or really shy. :-P

Err sorry.. carry on!

Use ! She's trying to asses our sight, she's an ophtalmologist

[Sueno]

This is a good thread !!..talk about my type some more..so I can bask in the descriptions about me..

[Rubicon]

Use ! She's trying to asses our sight, she's an ophtalmologist

Ahhh!

[redbaron]

well here's the thing: I'm ATTRACTED to selfishness. Both in myself and others. Maybe it's because I've seen the problems that can come when you constantly put others first and neglect your own needs and state of well-being. The other thing is, when someone admits to being selfish, that's cool too! It's like they're not afraid to be human and honest. People who always talk about what they're doing for other people... it feels like they're hiding something, or like there's something they don't like about themselves that they're covering up by being focused on others. Am I way off here? Does this make any sense?

[1981slater]

well here's the thing: I'm ATTRACTED to selfishness. Both in myself and others. Maybe it's because I've seen the problems that can come when you constantly put others first and neglect your own needs and state of well-being. The other thing is, when someone admits to being selfish, that's cool too! It's like they're not afraid to be human and honest. People who always talk about what they're doing for other people... it feels like they're hiding something, or like there's something they don't like about themselves that they're covering up by being focused on others. Am I way off here? Does this make any sense?

Before posting this you should have said: DO YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT THE MATRIX IS, NEO?

[betterthan]

lol

[enigmadream]

Before posting this you should have said: DO YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT THE MATRIX IS, NEO?

lol

But with respect to redbaron's post - that's how it's like for me. I think I've lost so much of myself trying to fit into someone else's mould. The fact is that I think I've stretched and contorted myself into something that I don't even recognise. I just don't have passion for anything. Fleeting interests yes but passion I lack.

OTOH, I do find that I am happier when I'm less self-absorbed. When my focus is on others. I guess that's what SLEs are for...;p

[JWC3]

Listen, here's why SLEs and IEIs go together. Cause SLEs deserve nothing short of he most wickedly fucking awesome people in the world and, coincidentally, that turns out to be IEIs.

[Blaze]

lol

But with respect to redbaron's post - that's how it's like for me. I think I've lost so much of myself trying to fit into someone else's mould. The fact is that I think I've stretched and contorted myself into something that I don't even recognise. I just don't have passion for anything. Fleeting interests yes but passion I lack.

OTOH, I do find that I am happier when I'm less self-absorbed. When my focus is on others. I guess that's what SLEs are for...;p

ah the return of ephemeros/pinochio. :-)

[Satan]

well here's the thing: I'm ATTRACTED to selfishness. Both in myself and others. Maybe it's because I've seen the problems that can come when you constantly put others first and neglect your own needs and state of well-being. The other thing is, when someone admits to being selfish, that's cool too! It's like they're not afraid to be human and honest. People who always talk about what they're doing for other people... it feels like they're hiding something, or like there's something they don't like about themselves that they're covering up by being focused on others. Am I way off here? Does this make any sense?

true.