Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
That said, I do notice that people tend to gravitate towards me professionally because I'm not as self-seeking as most people are. I think of it as professionalism.

And yes! I do realize that this seemingly contradicts the other thing I just said.

I've found a balance. (:
I don't see a contradiction. and if you pay more attention to this... you will discover that the word "balance" will change into "peace".

As a beautiful prayer puts it: "For it is by self-forgetting that one finds."