I actually don't think people notice my psychological distance for the most part. I do actually come off as really friendly, positive and charismatic....when I want to.

I think it just has to do what kind of environment I'm in. If I'm in an environment that accepts me for who I am...I can be really charismatic. That came later on in life though. I always had the ability though, I just never cared to use it, something felt fake about it. For some reason, now it doesn't.

In an environment that is not suitable for me, I feel awkward, inadequate, and even a bit resentful of those around me.

OH and if I'm in a poor work environment that can really have an affect on my overall attitude towards life and people in general.