Originally Posted by
Emmym
Yes.
One of the biggest fights my ex and I ever had was regarding me skipping a holiday with her family when I got sick.
Apparently, I had missed the one before as well? This isn't typically like me, but I had the flu during Christmas and the last thing I wanted to do was risk getting anyone else sick while suffering through the experience of being in someone else's home during a high-stress period while also uncomfortably ill.
This was not a valid reason to someone with Si-PoLR, though.
I'll never forget her telling me that "sometimes in life we have to do things that we don't want to do." It really stung to be lectured like a child, considering I felt I had an extremely valid reason.
The combination of Si PoLR + Se HA is incredibly uncomfortable for me in the real world.