Originally Posted by
look.to.the.sky
For me personally, the best way to find out is how much attention I'm actively giving you. This might be a little hard since NeFi (at least) tend to be sociable and out with different people often, as well as very warm and attentive to you while you're around, but, for at least me, there's some tell-tale patterns.
I will pretty much give into sharing contact information and making plans with little to no hesitation, or if you're not the type to initiate plans, I will suggest some ideas or joke like "Oh, that's your favorite movie too? Let's watch it sometime!" and "I really need to start getting in shape, I should come over more often and use your pool with you!" Of course, everyone does this, and to varying degrees of importance, but you'll know if I'm interested in your company if it seems like I'm completely free and there are no obstacles (sans work) to us hanging out. I will be open to doing things that I'm not usually comfortable with, for example, the SiTe I know wants to take me to the shooting range one day, and before I talked with him, I NEVER touched a gun before and never even thought about shooting one, was pretty anti-gun until I started to become more moderate about it, and when he suggested it, it came to a shock that someone presented an idea I didn't think I'd ever do of my own volition, but I said I would try it!
I feel like I'm constantly presenting situations that insinuate that I'm interested and I want the other to take the first step, but something tells me that this isn't too obvious to the other person, or, if they also someone who doesn't really feel comfortable initiating romantic situations at first, then we'd both end up just poking around and not trying to breech each other's comfort zones. I'm learning to get over that, I find that I have to just grit my teeth and blurt out/do whatever to make a romantic situation happen, but it helps if I know the other person is alright with it or I wouldn't get too much of a negative reaction.
Also, I will call/text very easily with you when I like you. Especially texting, you'll get as immediate responses as you can lol I won't call often because I don't want to be pushy/smothering, but when I do call, or if someone else calls, I will usually turn the talk to going out and doing something, or meeting up in some manner. I prefer to be with a person of interest in person, so if you find me wanting to see you often, it's pretty much a gimmie there.