Ideas, beliefs, and reality checks for INFjs and ENFps

[Lobo]

You Ne + Fi write a damn lot. Although I'm interested, I'm not patient enough to read all.

Envelopes coming from your types rarely fit in the mailbox.

haha. Hey, I've posted half as many posts as you.

[Creepy-Pied Piper]

Removed at User Request

[Delilah]

I have gotten the occasional 'reality check' in a big way to where something unexpected might have woke me to a situation i had not been prepared for. This has happened in 1 or 2 scenarios where i didn't have access to enough information about the other party. I don't think it is common. Usually I have a pretty good idea or at least, yes, like OP said, something has seemed off before any confirmation.

And yes, i try to remind myself to have expectations of other people, I even went through a period to where i had to tell myself that it is ok to have expectations as i felt guilty to expect something / anything of others.