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    My girlfriend likes to get attention and shes very flirty with members of the opposite sex(thats how we got started).

    She has alot of personal problems and isnt very emotionally stable. She tends to do alot of rebellious things that get her into trouble like making bombs, throwing stuff at houses, etc.

    Everyone tends to like her. She has alot of friends.

    She is somewhat intrusive with her problems and talks about them alot, she needs lots of attention towards her.

    Shes somewhat mature as a person but this isnt easy to notice as outwardly she comes as ditsy and airheaded, and stereotypically immature(only stereotyically, which doesnt make her truly immature).

    Shes very impulsive and does alot of dangerous stuff without thinking of the consequences, like hard drugs for example.

    Shes not easily grossed out or impressed by things that would disturb most people; she isnt at all squeemish.

    She doesnt seem to dwell on the past; she tends to focus on the present and has fun regardless of whether or not she left someone behind.

    She very concerned with her own well being; she takes what is good for her and likes to draw concern to her problems and talks about them alot. She needs to be liked by the people she talks to for the same reason; because she always chooses what is good for her right now in the present.

    I always thought she was Se-ISTj. ISTj because of her need to be liked in a psotive kinda way and the importance of her close circle relationships, and Se subtype because of impulsiveness.







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    Edit: That was based on what you wrote before you posted the pictures. Now I would say FeNi.
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    the description sounded ENFj for the first half and then I was wondering about ESTp.
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    Lucky!!!!
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    Is this thread a joke?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loki View Post
    Is this thread a joke?
    aye f*ck you. Why would it be a joke, you jealous or something?
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    Um.

    wow.

    uhhh... Ti ISTj?

    right. okay.


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    Extroverted. That's for sure. ESFp-Se?

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    nah, she has Ti eyes lol.

    I cannot see her as anything but Beta ST





    Actually her eyes seem object focused like Michael C. Hall, so I'm changing my mind to Se ISTj fo now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ArchonAlarion View Post
    nah, she has Ti eyes lol.

    I cannot see her as anything but Beta ST
    Given that this
    Quote Originally Posted by Typhon
    My girlfriend likes to get attention and shes very flirty with members of the opposite sex(thats how we got started).

    She has alot of personal problems and isnt very emotionally stable. She tends to do alot of rebellious things that get her into trouble like making bombs, throwing stuff at houses, etc.

    Everyone tends to like her. She has alot of friends.

    She is somewhat intrusive with her problems and talks about them alot, she needs lots of attention towards her.

    Shes somewhat mature as a person but this isnt easy to notice as outwardly she comes as ditsy and airheaded, and stereotypically immature(only stereotyically, which doesnt make her truly immature).

    Shes very impulsive and does alot of dangerous stuff without thinking of the consequences, like hard drugs for example.

    Shes not easily grossed out or impressed by things that would disturb most people; she isnt at all squeemish.

    She doesnt seem to dwell on the past; she tends to focus on the present and has fun regardless of whether or not she left someone behind.

    She very concerned with her own well being; she takes what is good for her and likes to draw concern to her problems and talks about them alot. She needs to be liked by the people she talks to for the same reason; because she always chooses what is good for her right now in the present.
    is true, can you see her as Introvert?

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    ESFp-Se, I'm like 90% sure.

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    I bet she's been sexually abused.
    Quote Originally Posted by polikujm View Post
    ESFp-Se, I'm like 90% sure.
    and you're like 90% wrong. she is ISTj-Se

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    ESFp !
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    Yeah, that's not exactly rational behavior, except maybe for someone who lives in taiwan where all they do is make bombs and throw stuff because its part of the society. Enough of this rational typing shet! Impulsive and spontaneous doesn't mean "Se."

    If you read the little description at the top and stop looking at the pictures for two seconds, you'll notice she's an ego F.

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    I'm inclined to say Beta Extrovert, with no preference for either SLE or EIE. Some of what you say supports the former; some the latter. My conclusion is also partly based on my own judgement based on people I know who are similar in some ways to her.

    Quote Originally Posted by Typhon View Post
    She tends to do alot of rebellious things that get her into trouble like making bombs, throwing stuff at houses, etc.
    LOL

    That's brilliant.

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    The description does not sound like any ISTj's I know. Appearance does not remind them of them either, but im not a confident typer on Vi or appearance.

    Either way id say beta Fe.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Typhon View Post






    Am I the only one who sees Christina Aguilera?









    http://images.google.com/images?hl=e...mages&aq=f&oq=


    I don't think they're the same type, though. I'm guessing she's probably just a fan who likes her style?
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    Speaking on celebrities, the girl reminds me of this Spanish celebrity (text-book SEE) and a girl I know (SEE too). Come on, the traits typhon wrote are nothing but related to as a leading function

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1981slater View Post
    Speaking on celebrities, the girl reminds me of this Spanish celebrity (text-book SEE) and a girl I know (SEE too). Come on, the traits typhon wrote are nothing but related to as a leading function


    lmao me encanta! que debe ser SEE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by implied View Post
    lmao me encanta! que debe ser SEE.
    aaahhh! esta tía está hasta en la sopa
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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    Am I the only one who sees Christina Aguilera?









    christina aguilera - Google Image Search


    I don't think they're the same type, though. I'm guessing she's probably just a fan who likes her style?

    lady gaga.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Typhon View Post
    My girlfriend likes to get attention and shes very flirty with members of the opposite sex(thats how we got started).

    She has alot of personal problems and isnt very emotionally stable. She tends to do alot of rebellious things that get her into trouble like making bombs, throwing stuff at houses, etc.

    Everyone tends to like her. She has alot of friends.

    She is somewhat intrusive with her problems and talks about them alot, she needs lots of attention towards her.

    Shes somewhat mature as a person but this isnt easy to notice as outwardly she comes as ditsy and airheaded, and stereotypically immature(only stereotyically, which doesnt make her truly immature).

    Shes very impulsive and does alot of dangerous stuff without thinking of the consequences, like hard drugs for example.

    Shes not easily grossed out or impressed by things that would disturb most people; she isnt at all squeemish.

    She doesnt seem to dwell on the past; she tends to focus on the present and has fun regardless of whether or not she left someone behind.

    She very concerned with her own well being; she takes what is good for her and likes to draw concern to her problems and talks about them alot. She needs to be liked by the people she talks to for the same reason; because she always chooses what is good for her right now in the present.

    I always thought she was Se-ISTj. ISTj because of her need to be liked in a psotive kinda way and the importance of her close circle relationships, and Se subtype because of impulsiveness.
    I would have to agree with the general consensus here. Your description of her is more ESFp than any other type imho. Vi i dont know, she does look a bit dangerous, perhaps not as smiley as ESFp but i still dont have a problem with it. She is clearly comfortable with her body as ESFp's often are. My ESFp girlfriend wore short skirts and short shorts, one i work with does the same as does my friends sister who walks around in her undies even when friends are over lol. ISTj's from my VERY limited experience are not typically as revealing. I bolded the bits that i have observed in ESFp's in my life, including my ex. As you can see its basically all of it lol. You talk about her interpersonal problems, instability and her need to be liked, all of which do not strike me as common ISTj qualities. She is an ethical sensor i think. Some parts of it do actually seem SLI like the rebelliousness, lack of squeemish but i dont think so.
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