Alphas and PDA

[Banana Pancakes]

How do you feel about Public Displays of Affection?

and by PDA I mean this:






NOT This (bee):

[Banana Pancakes]

I wish that people wouldn't snog next to me in the bus. There's only so much of that noise I can take! The sloshing and the mushing and the gross sound of wet lips ... but really, besides that it's fine. I mean, I'm fine with it. Whatever ...

*snogs carla while whispering to vote in the poll*

[Wynch]

I'm not a big fan of excessive PDA, like when you play tonsil hockey in the middle of high traffic areas. To me that edges towards exhibitionist rather than PDA. Another example of the PDA I don't like is when people are hanging out with couple-friends and they get all cooey and giggly and fondling on couches. That happens less so now that I'm in my twenties, but you get it occassionally and it's really frigging annoying.

However, I enjoy more PDA then my parents who (all but my SLE step-dad, lolz) seem to corner affection for behind closed doors. That or they have none, lol.

[xyz]

Maybe you should throw in the length of time the pictures above spent in sucking their face. I mean, i'm sure there's a difference between 1 second and 1 minute of that.

[Wynch]

Maybe you should throw in the length of time the pictures above spent in sucking their face. I mean, i'm sure there's a difference between 1 second and 1 minute of that.

This is true, and is the big difference for me. I like the idea of a quick kiss out in public, because why not? I'm not hiding anything, and I want to be able to share my affection anywhere. But I don't need foreplay in the street.

[Banana Pancakes]

Maybe you should throw in the length of time the pictures above spent in sucking their face. I mean, i'm sure there's a difference between 1 second and 1 minute of that.

K we're going to define PDA as greater than 30 seconds of face suckage/fondling for the purposes of the poll. If you like it less than 30 secs, than you don't like it.

[xyz]

K we're going to define PDA as greater than 30 seconds of face suckage/fondling for the purposes of the poll. If you like it less than 30 secs, than you don't like it.

Ah, well, guess I don't. But then again, i'm not alpha so my opinion doesn't matter!

What if you have a SO that gets offended when you don't wanna have tongue foreplay during a hockey game?

[Wynch]

K we're going to define PDA as greater than 30 seconds of face suckage/fondling for the purposes of the poll. If you like it less than 30 secs, than you don't like it.

Poll Fix'd

[Banana Pancakes]

Poll Fix'd

thanks vero

[Hot Scalding Gayser]

I think it's childish and insecure if people have to show PDA to their lover all the time, but I can understand a bit of it if you're newly in love.

Actually I got upset at everybody once because when my cousin was in love everybody was all miserable to her about it. "Oh why are they so cutsey with each other, it's not real!" blah blah blah.

Some people are just unnecessarily negative. Of course love is going to fade! That's not the point. If you have it, you're in it, enjoy it while it lasts.

Fuck negative doomsayers. There is already enough cynicism in the world.

If somebody is happy stop trying to bring them down. It's just plain evil.