yup. I'd consider it flirting/showing interest. after reading what I wrote I decided I didn't like the reason I gave for not chasing. It isn't because I decide I'm wasting effort, lol I'll waste effort all day. If the girl doesn't show obvious interest I'd feel like I was forcing/pushing myself on them, which I don't do.Originally Posted by munenori2
I guess I don't consider it to be officially chasing, which is what gives me the hangup. lol, what I mean I suppose is that what I was talking about is just me being myself and letting things happen, doing what comes naturally. Anytime the mindset takes over that I need to or should make something happen, that's bad news.
The funny thing is that if they don't show interest I sometimes go into another mode where I do flirt and push just for fun. Not because I'm expecting success, but just as idk another kind of game. (like I do with Bee)
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