Dualized Betas

[sigma]

STs: more empathetic, generous, caring; seem more "human"

NFs: more stable, driven, less moody; have a sense of direction

stable... oh yes... and productive....

[unefille]

Are we defining dualization as just 'having a dual around' or does it have to be a romantic dual relationship?

What I mean is, does the fact that my father is LSI and my best friend is LSI make me a 'dualized' individual?

[sigma]

Are we defining dualization as just 'having a dual around' or does it have to be a romantic dual relationship?

What I mean is, does the fact that my father is LSI and my best friend is LSI make me a 'dualized' individual?

I think it has to do with a significant interaction with a dual. If the interaction is with a partner... there are certain advantages but I don't think is necessary to be a romantic relationship.

I don't care who whips my butt into action.

[idolatrie]

They are fitter, happier, more productive, comfortable, not drinking too much, regular exercise at the gym, 3 days a week, getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries at ease, eating well, no more microwave dinners and saturated fats, a patient better driver, a safer car, baby smiling in back seat, sleeping well, no bad dreams, no paranoia, careful to all animals, never washing spiders down the plughole, keep in contact with old friends, enjoy a drink now and then, will frequently check credit at moral bank, hole in wall, favors for favors, fond but not in love.

[unefille]

They are fitter, happier, more productive, comfortable, not drinking too much, regular exercise at the gym, 3 days a week, getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries at ease, eating well, no more microwave dinners and saturated fats, a patient better driver, a safer car, baby smiling in back seat, sleeping well, no bad dreams, no paranoia, careful to all animals, never washing spiders down the plughole, keep in contact with old friends, enjoy a drink now and then, will frequently check credit at moral bank, hole in wall, favors for favors, fond but not in love.

So dualised Betas become Delta? Talk about a rough deal...

[Ezra]

They are fitter, happier, more productive, comfortable, not drinking too much, regular exercise at the gym, 3 days a week, getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries at ease, eating well, no more microwave dinners and saturated fats, a patient better driver, a safer car, baby smiling in back seat, sleeping well, no bad dreams, no paranoia, careful to all animals, never washing spiders down the plughole, keep in contact with old friends, enjoy a drink now and then, will frequently check credit at moral bank, hole in wall, favors for favors, fond but not in love.

... (noises)

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... (silence)

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[redbaron]

dualized betas make me jealous. Cause I feel like they're getting what I need. beware the envy of a 4.



that said, I do have a friend who's SLE and I always come away from our interactions feeling great. Like I can do anything. I get an extra measure of motivation from him and new hope. but it fades after awhile...

[Ezra]

dualized betas make me jealous. Cause I feel like they're getting what I need. beware the envy of a 4.



that said, I do have a friend who's SLE and I always come away from our interactions feeling great. Like I can do anything. I get an extra measure of motivation from him and new hope. but it fades after awhile...

Didn't you start a thread about Se/Ni appreciation?

[Whoobie77]

They are fitter, happier, more productive, comfortable, not drinking too much, regular exercise at the gym, 3 days a week, getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries at ease, eating well, no more microwave dinners and saturated fats, a patient better driver, a safer car, baby smiling in back seat, sleeping well, no bad dreams, no paranoia, careful to all animals, never washing spiders down the plughole, keep in contact with old friends, enjoy a drink now and then, will frequently check credit at moral bank, hole in wall, favors for favors, fond but not in love.

Socionics: The New Jesus!

[ScarlettLux]

I love Idolatrie

On the original thread question: Erm, I can attest to this somewhat because I have two very close LSI friends (not my duals?) and ever since university began for all of us, we've been separated. It feels like I'm empty, unfulfilled, not a bad pain or anything but a dull ache that is almost unnoticeable at times. We used to say that whenever we'd talk, LSIs and I, it would be like therapy for either of us. It honestly would be so helpful; I would go home and feel 10x better about myself, life, the world. Somehow we just understood each-other and without them in my life, I feel ... lost. I need direction or something. I don't know. I was a lot happier when I saw them everyday and I could vent out all my problems, actually GET solutions, workable ones, for them!

My IEI boyfriend and I just seem to reach a dead end with problems. It's not like being with someone who has Se and Ti in their ego. Jeez, it's really accurate when they say identicals can not help each-other because they're just so similar.