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    What's difference between having a notion of the meaning of life, and experiencing the meaning of life.

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    STs: more empathetic, generous, caring; seem more "human"

    NFs: more stable, driven, less moody; have a sense of direction
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    STs: more empathetic, generous, caring; seem more "human"

    NFs: more stable, driven, less moody; have a sense of direction
    stable... oh yes... and productive....
    "What is love?"
    "The total absence of fear," said the Master.
    "What is it we fear?"
    "Love," said the Master.

    I chose Love

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    Are we defining dualization as just 'having a dual around' or does it have to be a romantic dual relationship?

    What I mean is, does the fact that my father is LSI and my best friend is LSI make me a 'dualized' individual?
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    Quote Originally Posted by unefille View Post
    Are we defining dualization as just 'having a dual around' or does it have to be a romantic dual relationship?

    What I mean is, does the fact that my father is LSI and my best friend is LSI make me a 'dualized' individual?
    I think it has to do with a significant interaction with a dual. If the interaction is with a partner... there are certain advantages but I don't think is necessary to be a romantic relationship.

    I don't care who whips my butt into action.
    "What is love?"
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    They are fitter, happier, more productive, comfortable, not drinking too much, regular exercise at the gym, 3 days a week, getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries at ease, eating well, no more microwave dinners and saturated fats, a patient better driver, a safer car, baby smiling in back seat, sleeping well, no bad dreams, no paranoia, careful to all animals, never washing spiders down the plughole, keep in contact with old friends, enjoy a drink now and then, will frequently check credit at moral bank, hole in wall, favors for favors, fond but not in love.
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    Quote Originally Posted by idolatrie View Post
    They are fitter, happier, more productive, comfortable, not drinking too much, regular exercise at the gym, 3 days a week, getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries at ease, eating well, no more microwave dinners and saturated fats, a patient better driver, a safer car, baby smiling in back seat, sleeping well, no bad dreams, no paranoia, careful to all animals, never washing spiders down the plughole, keep in contact with old friends, enjoy a drink now and then, will frequently check credit at moral bank, hole in wall, favors for favors, fond but not in love.
    So dualised Betas become Delta? Talk about a rough deal...
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    Quote Originally Posted by idolatrie View Post
    They are fitter, happier, more productive, comfortable, not drinking too much, regular exercise at the gym, 3 days a week, getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries at ease, eating well, no more microwave dinners and saturated fats, a patient better driver, a safer car, baby smiling in back seat, sleeping well, no bad dreams, no paranoia, careful to all animals, never washing spiders down the plughole, keep in contact with old friends, enjoy a drink now and then, will frequently check credit at moral bank, hole in wall, favors for favors, fond but not in love.
    ... (noises)

    ... (more noises)

    ... (silence)

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    Quote Originally Posted by idolatrie View Post
    They are fitter, happier, more productive, comfortable, not drinking too much, regular exercise at the gym, 3 days a week, getting on better with your associate employee contemporaries at ease, eating well, no more microwave dinners and saturated fats, a patient better driver, a safer car, baby smiling in back seat, sleeping well, no bad dreams, no paranoia, careful to all animals, never washing spiders down the plughole, keep in contact with old friends, enjoy a drink now and then, will frequently check credit at moral bank, hole in wall, favors for favors, fond but not in love.
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    I love Idolatrie

    On the original thread question: Erm, I can attest to this somewhat because I have two very close LSI friends (not my duals?) and ever since university began for all of us, we've been separated. It feels like I'm empty, unfulfilled, not a bad pain or anything but a dull ache that is almost unnoticeable at times. We used to say that whenever we'd talk, LSIs and I, it would be like therapy for either of us. It honestly would be so helpful; I would go home and feel 10x better about myself, life, the world. Somehow we just understood each-other and without them in my life, I feel ... lost. I need direction or something. I don't know. I was a lot happier when I saw them everyday and I could vent out all my problems, actually GET solutions, workable ones, for them!

    My IEI boyfriend and I just seem to reach a dead end with problems. It's not like being with someone who has Se and Ti in their ego. Jeez, it's really accurate when they say identicals can not help each-other because they're just so similar.


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    dualised: cool
    not dualised: a bit scary, either in a Se way or a Fe way

    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    STs: more empathetic, generous, caring; seem more "human"

    NFs: more stable, driven, less moody; have a sense of direction
    the same goes for the deltas, i think

    way cool avatar. Makes me want to like u

    Quote Originally Posted by unefille View Post
    So dualised Betas become Delta? Talk about a rough deal...
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    A girl who I want to date, asks me: well first tell me how tall you are?
    My reply: well I will answer that, if you first tell me how much you weigh!

    2)
    A girl I was dating said she was oh so great at sex etc, but she didn't do blowjobs.
    My reply: Oh I'm really romantic etc, I just will never take you out to dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gilly View Post
    STs: more empathetic, generous, caring; seem more "human"

    NFs: more stable, driven, less moody; have a sense of direction
    This.

    I recall strrrng grew up with LII father or so ... which confirms my hypothesis about dualization as an incorporation/strengthening of functions, not as laziness and dependency on duals/others.

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