I've always had the impression that you were some kind of Introverted type trying oh, oh so hard to *force* out that Extraverted side. Like you wish you're Extraverted side dominanted your personality, but it doesn't, so you have to exaggerate it.
Also, I had a problem with this...
... if you think that's the real difference between
and
, then I'd have to disagree, and it may be why you are so resistant to being an
dominant type. Not saying that you are one for sure, but you keep on ignoring it without consideration.
types are not always considering other people's opinions, nor are they the only ones who do it.