Why is this thread in the Delta Quadra subforum? Wouldn't it be better placed in General Discussion? It deals with all types.
Why is this thread in the Delta Quadra subforum? Wouldn't it be better placed in General Discussion? It deals with all types.
LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP
Originally Posted by warrior-librarian
It was created in a time where there was very little happening in the delta quadra subforum; it was a means to get some deltas talking in here.This isn't necessarily related to only deltas, but, it's something we could talk about. Basically, post things that you see as being socioincally relevant - or instances in real conversation/interaction where you think socionics comes through in a clear way. There are some moments where I say "wow, this really exemplifies...." - do you have the same? I've been thinking about making a thread like this for a while, and some things from today finally led to it happening.
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(D)IEE~FI-(C)SLE~Ni E-5w4(Sp/Sx)/7w8(So/Sp)/9w1(sp/sx)
heh, I touched on a slightly uncomfortable subject with an SLI
and they bow out and change subjects to how they need to do something to their car.
classic.
Trying to help an ESE who is in a relationship with another ESE:
Me: I just wish the two of you could have a level-headed conversation for once.
ESE: ...
Me: You need to sit down at a time when you're both calm and talk about your future and make a plan with a timeline and everything. Like, date for a year, plan marriage, get married. Or not.
ESE: We already made a plan but we don't follow it. We make plans in our "intimate moments". (said with air quotes)
Me: And then you fight. You two are always fighting or having intimate lovey-dovey talks, when are you ever just calm so you can talk about the relationship and get to know each other?
ESE: We are passionate people! She thinks I'm yelling when I'm not. Do I sound like I'm yelling?
(he kind of does, but I know that's how he talks when he's feeling strongly, which is almost always)
Me: No I know you're not yelling now but you were yelling on the phone with her.
ESE: We were both talking passionately!
Me: You've got to be able to talk some other kind of way if you want to get to know each other. Remember we talked about building relationships before you can commit to them?
ESE: ...
Me: What do you want to do?
ESE: I don't know! I don't want to break up with this girl, I love her!
Me:...
ESE: I've got to end it right now, cut it off!
(goes off and cries)
EII
4w5, sp/sx
You're an expert in destroying relationships.
EII
4w5, sp/sx
Yeah, really weird to me, like the most inorganic way to move the conversation. I was talking to this SiTe I had a rocky time with, and he brought up why I didn't talk much with him and why I seemed mean when we talked. I brought up all the times he continued to flake on me, and that I waited months for him to live up to his word and continued to have my patience tried to the point where I just gave up. Like, he directly asked for this, and then instead of answering anything, he just goes "Let's talk about something nicer." And we haven't talked since then, so I'm just like screw him
Well...what kind of car was it? ;-)
ISTp
SLI
Enneagram 5 with a side of wings.
Jeez, can't you read? It was *classic.*
(still not ontopic)
SLI
From an online conversation w an SLI friend/ex-coworker of mine:
Me - Thank you, [SLI]! It has been too long... as much as I enjoy your wit via the internet, it isn't the same as in person. I don't know if you're free, but we [at work] are having the Halloween Extravaganza next week - it'd be great to see you [and your offspring!] if you can make it... if not, hopefully I'll see you soon... I need to have a party or something, and if I do then hopefully you and your wife can make an appearance ;-)
SLI - these things you've said all sound very reasonable, and i'll see what i can do
"very reasonable" indeed.
IEI-Fe 4w3
Aw, now that's bad. Even I can see that.From an online conversation w an SLI friend/ex-coworker of mine:
Me - Thank you, [SLI]! It has been too long... as much as I enjoy your wit via the internet, it isn't the same as in person. I don't know if you're free, but we [at work] are having the Halloween Extravaganza next week - it'd be great to see you [and your offspring!] if you can make it... if not, hopefully I'll see you soon... I need to have a party or something, and if I do then hopefully you and your wife can make an appearance ;-)
SLI - these things you've said all sound very reasonable, and i'll see what i can do
ISTp
SLI
Enneagram 5 with a side of wings.
Not to be judgmental, but it sounds like he has a cork stuck somewhere.
ISTp
SLI
Enneagram 5 with a side of wings.
I'm sure he's cool...he is SLI afterall. :wink:
ISTp
SLI
Enneagram 5 with a side of wings.
lol, that's cute. That kind of response wouldn't bother me at all either. It almost seems like he wrote down exactly what he was thinking, but that's what's cute about it.From an online conversation w an SLI friend/ex-coworker of mine:
Me - Thank you, [SLI]! It has been too long... as much as I enjoy your wit via the internet, it isn't the same as in person. I don't know if you're free, but we [at work] are having the Halloween Extravaganza next week - it'd be great to see you [and your offspring!] if you can make it... if not, hopefully I'll see you soon... I need to have a party or something, and if I do then hopefully you and your wife can make an appearance ;-)
SLI - these things you've said all sound very reasonable, and i'll see what i can do
Hi! I'm an ENFP. :-)
The laugh of an LSI who is anxious about showing a receptivity to positive emotional content when in the presence of a perceives superior.
mmm
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