Example of an INTp & INFj conversation (benefit relations)

[crazedrat]

uneven syntax indicates an uneven thought process. A one sided conversation is a trademark of benefactor/beneficiary relations, with the beneficiary doing all the stunts. Go learn about it.

[Joy]

Some people just naturally like to talk more and others like to listen more.

[redbaron]

Some people just naturally like to talk more and others like to listen more.

I agree. Doesn't necessarily mean it's an asymmetrical relation.

[crazedrat]

You're right. In assymetrical relations, though, it occurs that one person really can't find a way to give input into the relationship. And that isn't happening here. We see both giving equal input into the relationship, regardless of it being negative input.

[Joy]

What type is he Joy?

I couldn't say, based solely on that. If he's the guy from the video though, he's IP. He looks a little bit like my ILI brother, but not enough for me to say I think he's ILI.

[crazedrat]

So you're basing your responses on nothing as usual. Okay then

[Joy]

I'm basing my "I don't know" response on the fact that I don't know, if that's okay with you.

[Joy]

you said a mouthful there. *sigh* I think I may agree with you. but it's really sad that it has to be that way. makes me depressed cause I just feel like we're all people with a lot to offer, why can't we be friends? Plus I value the male point of view. it's just... they're so... susceptible to... feminine whatevers.

I try to see it as a good thing... a biological process that ensures the survival of the species. There are a number of guys that I get along with really well and enjoy talking to, and that's fine. I just avoid spending too much time with or giving too much attention to them. It tends to keep the level of tension far enough away from that breaking point.