Since when has saying "you have nice eyes" meant that you want to fuck someone...
Mind you-
I've said you have nice eyes to girls I've just met. Whist continously locking on, and got a reasonably good response before.
I'm assuming you just want to control how far things go. Which to me is on par with not allowing the other to have the upper hand.
I've known a few girls to say that they're not attractive, and who I haven't wanted to say that they're attractive because I don't want to give them the wrong idea.I'm fine with telling another girl that she's attractive, or a gay guy, ect. I know they wont think that I mean anything out of context by it, and I'm always being honest with what I say.
Then I've also had girls say that they're not attractive, when I'm really drunk, ... and not been as concerned about giving the wrong idea.
My favourite thing to say to girls i don't give a shit about, and want to wind up .. is that they're easy.
For some reason most girls don't like to be told that they're easy, and those that can deal with it, are much more amusing.
There's this girl that came up to me yesterday, to do this survey, and I spotted her again,. and I spotted her today, and then again today, ...
Anyway, it only just struck me today, that she reminds me of this cute girl who used to sit behind me in a school class, and who'd occasionally get spastic when she got stuck on things, and I'd turn around.
And again it struck me, I never really paid her much attention, but I always thought she was cute/hot. She was pretty quiet though.
And I think like often when I meet girls, they can remind me of other girls I've known in the past ...
And that in a way can fuel their attraction.
Hello everyone. Hope you've been well. I am going to break my forum fast to dredge up an old post of mine that seems relevant to the topic:
Anyway, in high school I had a history teacher of such girth so as to make it impossible to ambulate like a normal person. He would navigate the halls by use of a chair he had fitted with wheels. He was, quite frankly, the best teacher I ever had. His lectures on World History were legendary among the students of the high school (where he had taught for almost 30 years) - witty, engaging, insightful. I learned more in that class than any college lecture.Originally Posted by Baby
Then, about two years after I graduated, we got word that dear Mr. Musgrove had passed away. It was a sad day. He had had health problems through the last few years of his life and occasionally would take leave for extended periods of time, leaving his students in constant worry about whether he had expired or not. Still, none of us would ever dare bluntly suggest a diet to this man who could concievably swallow entire Bostom Market chickens whole. He lived and died exactly how he wished. A fat, fat, awesome and intelligent man.
BTW, I'm still not here.
"How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
-- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet
I think every school has one of those fat teachers on motorized wheelchairs. I did. It was particularly fun when it'd be dead silent while you're taking a test and all you see is a fat man fly by on a wheelchair.
/kinda mean..sorry about your teacher... I just had to throw that out there.
About the only real criteria that I can think of that will deter me from befriending an individual is if they...stink. And I have met fat, average and thin people who I can attribute this trait.
I agree with the general sentiments that I cannot like someone who I do not find attractive but, on the other hand, I have liked those who others, particularly my friends, find unattractive and downright ugly. But in my eyes, they are appealing. For me, the personality really affects my judgment of a person's physical appearance.
As a result of this many, many people say I have strange tastes and all too often I get the "You're too good for him" or "What do you see in him" statements, which most of the time baffles me.
Ceci n'est pas une eii.
I missed you too.
lol. This actually wasn't a motorized wheelchair but literally just a wooden chair with those wheels you see on the bottom of shopping carts attached to the legs. Actually, if I remember right, he had a set of two.Originally Posted by jessica129
But anyway, my point is: don't underestimate the morbidly obese. You might not necessarily be inclined to copulate with them, but they might have other attributes (intelligence/wit/insight/humor/etc.) that make fostering a friendship worth considering. We all have weaknesses (I know some people who can't stop posted compulsively on a certain internet forum...), so best to practice us some humility and compassion, yo.
"How could we forget those ancient myths that stand at the beginning of all races, the myths about dragons that at the last moment are transformed into princesses? Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love."
-- Rainer Maria Rilke, Letters to a Young Poet
I think it was said before in this thread, but I am not (or at least I do not honestly think) I look anything like a Tom Cruise, but I can still get phone numbers, get women to talk to me, etc. I think this is because I am very honest, ambitious, and I know how to but things into perspective. As far as how I am attracted to women, I am attracted to the ones that are physically attractive, but there are a lot of exceptions to this too. Some women I find more attractive than women that are supposed to be more physically attractive according to what others might say, or by mass media's standards. As far as people in general, I try to associate with attractive people as much as I can that also fit my values.
I have much the same sentiments:
lately I've been realizing how beautiful people are in a more general way, even if they are overweight. I used to have a VERY strong negative reaction to fat women or ugly girls. But now it's more I'm able to appreciate them as a person, or just understand their insecurities better, maybe more empathy somehow? So it's not so bad.
But I definitely have my own strong tastes about what I find attractive. I only really like a few body types, and I prefer a certain lithe quality. And I'm very, very particular about what I like in a face.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
I don't like it when women have narrow hips, probably because my head is an inch and a half larger than average in circumference, so I'm subconsciously wondering how they'll squeeze out my cranially well-endowed offspring.
CHILD-BEARIN' HIPS
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Sometimes, guys just like big butts, and they cannot lie.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
When a girl walks in with an itty bitty waste and a round thing in his face, UDP gets sprung.
EDIT: Anthropologists believe that men are generally attracted to women with wider hips and bigger breasts because they are child-bearers.
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Very busy with work. Only kind of around.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Please tell me that's photoshopped? She looks like she's about to keel over and die just from lifting her arms.
Are those her nipples all the way under her arms or is that a fat roll with a zit?
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
Average looking and ugly people actually reproduce at a much more frequent rate than highly attractive people.
I'm good looking and intelligent. I'll have to find a good looking and intelligent wife, and then have much pleasing sex with her, raising a few (not too many, but maybe 2-3-4) kids. I will do this for the benefit of humanity, aesthetically and intellectually speaking. We will shrug off statistics and be leaders of the new way. For the benefit of society - to save the world - this will be my quest.
And so, destiny reveals itself.
Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.
~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.
I'm glad that it's all about reproduction and being a birthing or fertilizing unit. I think I feel estranged from my own biology. The filthy genes of the average and unattractive people are clearly turning the purity of humanity into a sort of vile cesspool.