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Right I don't know. I was speaking more about something with extrinsic beauty, although with the eyesight example, it seemed like people's outlook on life changed when they relaxed and "let go" of their strain, resulting in the normal vision - I know mine did. I'm not at completely perfect yet, but maybe 85% toward normal from where I started - reading license plates on distant cars when in my late teen years I never would've dreamed of being able to do that again. Imagine living with resistance vs letting things go. Actually I first decided to take the risk a few years ago because I didn't want to have to "depend on anything" to function "normally", and I loved how I looked without my glasses. I never wore contacts because they always felt uncomfortable and I could never just take them off like I could glasses. So, despite all the doctors and family pressure advising me against doing this natural vision thing, I did it anyway because as I read about it, I just knew it to be true, and it's worked. Maybe improving an ailment is integrated with changing one's outlook on life, and not necessarily a cause or effect of one or the other. But I can't help but believe this principle applies to other undiscovered areas too.Originally Posted by strrrng
Yeah the initial spark has to be there to begin with - the equivalent for me being if I really like someone but they're dependent on something like glasses or contacts (with the mentality and approach on life that accompanies it) - I'll probably help them to do away with them just like I did, for not only looks, but general mental well being.Originally Posted by strrrng
Definitely. Everyone has an interesting personality to an extent, but I have non-smoker friends, potentially other girls I can seek out, etc.Originally Posted by strrrng