Attraction in Supervision relations and getting along reasonably well

[1981slater]

Supervisors want to fix their supervisees.
Women want to fix their husbands.

Therefore, female supervisors tend to "fall in love" with male supervisees.

There is a motto: men expect their partners not to change, women expect to change their partners.

[Blaze]

Supervisors want to fix their supervisees.
Women want to fix their husbands.

Therefore, female supervisors tend to "fall in love" with male supervisees.

There is a motto: men expect their partners not to change, women expect to change their partners.

you're on to something here. i believe it.

The only time I really get threatened by ILE's is when they use their role which kind of mimics SLE to me briefly

yes you are right this is what i meant to say.

[twizzlestix]

I was discussing socionics with my sister the other day. I was saying that it would be great if government was run in such a way that everyone had to report to their respective "supervisor". Now I am starting to doubt if that would in fact be a good idea. Imagine the affairs and scandalls? Imagine the poor dual husbands and wives at home, petrified their duals would be falling for their supervisors. That would be awful. There always has to be a hitch, doesn't there? Doesn't it all make you wish the 2012 prophesy were true?

[ladyinred]

I was discussing socionics with my sister the other day. I was saying that it would be great if government was run in such a way that everyone had to report to their respective "supervisor". Now I am starting to doubt if that would in fact be a good idea. Imagine the affairs and scandalls? Imagine the poor dual husbands and wives at home, petrified their duals would be falling for their supervisors. That would be awful. There always has to be a hitch, doesn't there? Doesn't it all make you wish the 2012 prophesy were true?

what. the. fuck.

[NewBorn STAR]

Comon. Dont scare away the newcomers. Supposedly twizzlestix has thought something like: " Since they are like our supervisors shouldnt they also be our supervisors everywhere".. or something similiar. To which twizzlestix, i reply to you that it wouldnt work because supervisor is a bad relationship, relationship in which the supervisor doesnt really apreciate the good qualities of the supervisee, and the supervisee is deeply affected by the criticism of the supervisor. Meaning that if we had a system based on this psychologial supervisor system it would lead to one very sad nation.

[DirectorAbbie]

Supervisors want to fix their supervisees.
Women want to fix their husbands.

Therefore, female supervisors tend to "fall in love" with male supervisees.

There is a motto: men expect their partners not to change, women expect to change their partners.

Maybe. A grandma is ESI and her husband is SLE.
Personally, I've been attracted to an ILI and I view SEIs more as children to take care of then as people to fix.

[DirectorAbbie]

what. the. fuck.

That made perfect sense to me.

[Exodus]

Supervisors want to fix their supervisees.
Women want to fix their husbands.

Therefore, female supervisors tend to "fall in love" with male supervisees.

Interesting theory...

[Blaze]

I was discussing socionics with my sister the other day. I was saying that it would be great if government was run in such a way that everyone had to report to their respective "supervisor". Now I am starting to doubt if that would in fact be a good idea. Imagine the affairs and scandalls? Imagine the poor dual husbands and wives at home, petrified their duals would be falling for their supervisors. That would be awful. There always has to be a hitch, doesn't there? Doesn't it all make you wish the 2012 prophesy were true?

LOL guaranteed to be a sure fire way of having nothing work well. remember, the supervision is right...but it doesn't work. the ring of social control would implode on itself, kind of an OD on control.

[redbaron]

Maybe. A grandma is ESI and her husband is SLE.

Oh I know several ESI-SLE marriages. (female always ESI)

[redbaron]

what. the. fuck.

[redbaron]

IME that's not necessarily true. Echoing what Blaze said above… INFps have a clear advantage over me when it comes to and they can exploit that. If we're one on one, it's useless. But if they an audience to appeal to, I've been in countless situations before where the wily little bastards try to spin shit and pull manipulative echo chamber tactics repeating the same thing over and over no matter how many times you pin them down on how wrong they are.

yes I've done this before. hahaha But usually I don't care enough to trouble myself about it. Probably since I'm Ni-sub.