I'm becoming Bi-quadral

[Khola aka Bee]

Yeah - I'm not a real touchy-feely person either. I mean it's not so much that I'm picky about the quality of it lol, but the context has to be right. Especially when I'm stressed, someone can just brush past me, and it feels jarring - like an electric shock. Sort of like hearing a song that you like suddenly blasted into your ear without warning. On the other hand, I like initiating. It's the most genuine way I show affection.

Sorry, I was a little blunt and vague earlier. I agree with this statement. I mean sure, I like hugs, but I don't like being 'clung' to. And strangers...eww. This reminds me of those people you occasionally meet and barely know that come up to you upon meeting are are all "Oh hello darling! Kiss, kiss, hug." Like you are best friends and just love each other to death and are 'lunching ladies' or some crap. It's so saccharin sweet. I seriously want to punch them or tell them to fuck off, usually I just smile, get a feeling of utter distaste and try to get the hell away and into a more interesting group with people I can connect with without the forced 'love'.

What type would be most likely to act like this? Maybe ESE>SEE? I'd say SEE would pull it off more genuinely. Anyway yeah.

As for being in a partner situation, I really enjoy hugs and the idea that someone feels secure enough to be emotionally open, but if a partner wanted to hug me all the time and go on and on about insecurities I would probably have to kill them.

[Rubicon]

Sorry, I was a little blunt and vague earlier. I agree with this statement. I mean sure, I like hugs, but I don't like being 'clung' to. And strangers...eww. This reminds me of those people you occasionally meet and barely know that come up to you upon meeting are are all "Oh hello darling! Kiss, kiss, hug." Like you are best friends and just love each other to death and are 'lunching ladies' or some crap. It's so saccharin sweet. I seriously want to punch them or tell them to fuck off, usually I just smile, get a feeling of utter distaste and try to get the hell away and into a more interesting group with people I can connect with without the forced 'love'.

What type would be most likely to act like this? Maybe ESE>SEE? I'd say SEE would pull it off more genuinely. Anyway yeah.

I think SEE, from my experience. This ESE I know does sometimes with me, but we're good friends ... and it's in an over-the-top parodic way. But I completely agree. I can't stand that sort of thing. Air kisses and what not. lol

[Mediator Kam]

Sorry, I was a little blunt and vague earlier. I agree with this statement. I mean sure, I like hugs, but I don't like being 'clung' to. And strangers...eww. This reminds me of those people you occasionally meet and barely know that come up to you upon meeting are are all "Oh hello darling! Kiss, kiss, hug." Like you are best friends and just love each other to death and are 'lunching ladies' or some crap. It's so saccharin sweet. I seriously want to punch them or tell them to fuck off, usually I just smile, get a feeling of utter distaste and try to get the hell away and into a more interesting group with people I can connect with without the forced 'love'.

What type would be most likely to act like this? Maybe ESE>SEE? I'd say SEE would pull it off more genuinely. Anyway yeah.

As for being in a partner situation, I really enjoy hugs and the idea that someone feels secure enough to be emotionally open, but if a partner wanted to hug me all the time and go on and on about insecurities I would probably have to kill them.

Hugging is probably the most genuine way you can show someone you care about them, male or female. Of course, you use a different style hug on each, with varying levels of intimacy. Just wait for the book I'm writing on it.

[Khola aka Bee]

Will there be applesauce and cookies contained within those pages too? Sounds like fun.

[Mediator Kam]

I suppose there will be, free for all comers.

heheh.

[Wynch]

Hugging is probably the most genuine way you can show someone you care about them, male or female. Of course, you use a different style hug on each, with varying levels of intimacy. Just wait for the book I'm writing on it.

Kam, my feelings towards you alternate between finding you wonderfully endearing and sweet to making me want to gag and throw-up. Sometimes I feel both at the same time and it causes me confusion.

[Khola aka Bee]

I think they call that love.

[redbaron]

No. It just sounds infantile and kinky.

hmm, I thought infantile and kinky WAS love to alphas.

just teasin'.

[Mediator Kam]

hmm, I thought infantile and kinky WAS love to alphas.

just teasin'.

It is love to me, so represent!