My mother was always enthralled by my ability to organize, clean, change my habits, change my lifestyle, speak my mind, stand up for myself. She was an EII and had a very difficult time parting with useless objects, planning things, getting motivated, finishing projects. She always called me "common sense girl" or "no non-sense". Other words she used was practical, resourceful, and earthy. She used to pay me to organize her things and they would be messy again right away lol. She would say "Wow! I can't believe how good you are at organizing!"