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    My landlord is Esfj and I FEAR her. Any hints on getting on her good side?
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    She turns people against me and she might do me actual harm. She backstabs and so on. I stay out of the way but she picks on ANY and ALL things that I do.
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    Thatès what I am thinking. But in the short term...any suggestions
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    Cyanide.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dioklecian
    She turns people against me and she might do me actual harm. She backstabs and so on. I stay out of the way but she picks on ANY and ALL things that I do.
    what type are you?

    and do you know for sure that she is doing what she is doing? it could be your imagination. she also may be a bully type, who knows she's found a live prey. the best way to deal with it is to simply defend yourself verbally. if she tries kicking you out - sue her.

    if you don't yell back, she will keep attacking. she may be the type that you need to yell back to show that your as "tough" as she is.

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    My landlord is Esfj and I FEAR her

    I'll show up, work my magic, and everything will be straigtened out.

    For a price, of course.
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

    ~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
    ~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    I have no idea why this is so funny. I picture a large woman with a mustache standing in the doorway in her nightgown yelling at you. Don't know why that image popped into my mind.

    Okay, now in all seriousness, why do you fear her? What's so scary about her?

    Hey, not all ESFjs are like that....... ...... right........?
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

    ~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
    ~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.

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    No, most ESFj's are more like this:

    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    I wish
    Well I am back. How's everyone? Don't have as much time now, but glad to see some of the old gang are still here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gilligan87
    Cyanide.
    Digitalis is cheaper.

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    that be me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jadae
    that be me.

    ......

    are you refering to the photgraph, or that you are cheaper?
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gilligan87
    No, most ESFj's are more like this:

    I could deal with that ..
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

    ~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
    ~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gilligan87
    No, most ESFj's are more like this:



    And others....



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    fair enough
    Posts I wrote in the past contain less nuance.
    If you're in this forum to learn something, be careful. Lots of misplaced toxicity.

    ~an extraverted consciousness is unable to believe in invisible forces.
    ~a certain mysterious power that may prove terribly fascinating to the extraverted man, for it touches his unconscious.

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    i don't think leeza is an esfj..
    lol

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