Where to find SLEs/ESTps and LSIs/ISTjs?

[JWC3]

Well I would say that the best place to start would be getting out of the house. As far as a specific place goes I'm not really sure, any place were people are doing active things?

Personally you could find me at theater events, theater workshops, library, maybe at the gym if I'm bored. Basically though the thing that you need to look for is the loudest person in the room. Or the most obnoxious, or something along those lines. And places that are really competitive, I greatly enjoy competition of any kind.

[Suz]

Well I would say that the best place to start would be getting out of the house. As far as a specific place goes I'm not really sure, any place were people are doing active things?

Personally you could find me at theater events, theater workshops, library, maybe at the gym if I'm bored. Basically though the thing that you need to look for is the loudest person in the room. Or the most obnoxious, or something along those lines. And places that are really competitive, I greatly enjoy competition of any kind.

How did you know I needed to hear that?!!!

I seriously need to become less of a homebody if i want to find an SLE, I know. i LOVE being at home. But then I get lonely. . .:frown:

[silverchris9]

I seriously need to become less of a homebody if i want to find an SLE, I know. i LOVE being at home. But then I get lonely. . .:frown:

This is my life. If I didn't get lonely, I would probably spend all my time in my dorm room and the library. But luckily, I do get lonely, so I have to actually go out into the world and deal with people to find some that I like enough to hang out with who will also hang out with me.

I also vote for basketball courts, but pretty much anything that's "out there" accomplishing things is good. I mean, yes, SLEs do tend to be fairly physically active, but I think they just tend to be pushing hard towards their goals in whatever field they're interested in, and there are as many interests as there are SLEs. I know probable SLEs (I still don't trust my typing skills 100%) that are into acting, directing, philosophy, golf, classical languages... pretty much everything.

So, my suggestion is, besides joining your local gym and visiting often, to find a hobby that really interests you (especially something with a lot of obvious Ni/Fe, because I think SLEs can be drawn to stuff like that), and pursuing that wholeheartedly. You might meet some SLEs along the way!

[Suz]

what would be activities with a lot of Ni/Fe? Like for example?

[Gilly]

Reading poetry or singing at an open mic night. Standing on a corner, either selling weed or preaching the gospel. Discussing existential philosophy or psychology.

[redbaron]

selling weed or preaching the gospel.

or both.

[Gilly]

or both.

[JWC3]

what would be activities with a lot of Ni/Fe? Like for example?

Theater, It's got soooo much Fe *drools*

[Gilly]

Yeah, theater is another good one. Any kind of performing art can have an Fe/Ni bent.

[UDP]

I'm surprised nobody said it yet: gay bar.

[Blaze]

Gym. Check the basketball courts.

yeah. they tend to do sports and athletics. catching them watching them as fans might not yield as reliable results lol.

my SLE ex likes to fish, hike, work out, play basketball, ski.