Where to find SLEs/ESTps and LSIs/ISTjs?

[Suz]

No don't go by yourself. Take a friend. A winglady. Obviously the idea of a winglady isn't to make you look good and so you don't look like a weirdo/perv etc (which is the job of a wingman for a guy on the pull) but to ensure you don't choose the wrong guy.

And don't think that just because a party isn't wild you're not gonna meet an SLE there.

Moreover, remember that the more events you go to, the more you get stuck into, the more your chances of finding an SLE will increase. When I say "get stuck into" I mean you just need to make an appearance, you don't need to actually do anything. If you are even half fit you will get someone instantly. Honestly, worry not in the slightest.

Yeah thanks Ezra! That is very encouraging!

[silverchris9]

Are you trying to get her gang raped

high five.

EDIT: Not for gang rape. Just for that comment. 'Cause it was funny.

[redbaron]

how to do this, where to go. where do they hang out? I have some ideas but wanna know what you all think.

[thePirate]

bars/clubs for SLE
libraries for LSI

[redbaron]

libraries? hmmm....

[Kalinoche buenanoche]

both types suck! (LSIs a bit more since i think i interact with one on a daily basis)

[redbaron]

both types suck! (LSIs a bit more since i think i interact with one on a daily basis)

why do they suck?

[Blaze]

i know 2 SLE's that like to fish. they also like to work with their hands. and garden. it seems like they like sports...basketball, hockey, football.

LSI's, harder to say. i know one who has a passion for auto racing and cars. that's pretty much his whole life outside of work. so you could find them at your local track.

[Slacker]

Are you specifically looking for male Beta STs or just Beta STs in general? Because a lot of them seem to end up in moms' groups from what I've seen. This has caused trouble for me in the past, particularly before I knew about Socionics and understood what the problems were between us.

[Kalinoche buenanoche]

why do they suck?

well,maybe the ones in my age group do but i can't explain the reason why ...my Ni makes it so hard...

[Slacker]

Oh also, they seem to volunteer at my daughter's school a lot. The female LSIs in particular seem very into being in charge of volunteer efforts at the school. This causes friction when I volunteer as well. But they are really into volunteerism around here. Which is great overall as her school has some many advantages due to the huge number of very motivated volunteers. But it is hard for me to work alongside them due to our different work styles.

[Blaze]

Oh also, they seem to volunteer at my daughter's school a lot. The female LSIs in particular seem very into being in charge of volunteer efforts at the school. This causes friction when I volunteer as well. But they are really into volunteerism around here. Which is great overall as her school has some many advantages due to the huge number of very motivated volunteers. But it is hard for me to work alongside them due to our different work styles.

male ones are often volunteer fire fighters, i've seen 2-3 that do that. i guess they are kind of like the rock of the community.

[Kalinoche buenanoche]

the LSI i know is very teacher-like (very old-school ) but i don't think she would ever volunteer to,like,anything.

[redbaron]

Are you specifically looking for male Beta STs or just Beta STs in general? Because a lot of them seem to end up in moms' groups from what I've seen. This has caused trouble for me in the past, particularly before I knew about Socionics and understood what the problems were between us.

in general. this is interesting because I try to avoid moms groups and volunteering. lol!

[redbaron]

male ones are often volunteer fire fighters, i've seen 2-3 that do that. i guess they are kind of like the rock of the community.

I'm pretty sure my motorcycle safety instructor was LSI. I loved him!

[Linas]

boiz: 1st. school president, loved by all da girlz, mr. sweet guy, president of school companies, my best friend;
2nd. mr. asshole, fitnesser (whateva), mr. cosmo handsome (he won first place in national cosmopolitan's "without the shirt" contest and was featured in the magazine), a loud and assholish guy, my friend. our relationship woz broken, but today we got back togetho ^.^ )
3rd. hmmm, which one... hm, my neighbour. a fucking maniac in the early childhood. swearing all over the place, fighting, doing shit. now calm, pretty cool, and all that. I love our relationship since, he's taking my advices... we're a bit of the different backgrounds, so first he just listen asks loudly why the do i think one or another thing is rubbish, then after a while he kinda turns to that.. blabla.... and vice versa... we kinda , sorta educate one another in social and street life styles whateva....
4th... not sure... also a superior asshole then younger... well not really like that, but he used to be always in trouble... with us, his neighbours... dont ask... now he seems very calm and quite... probably friendship with no.3 and his parents who are high profile cops made him such.

hmm... yeah the 5th, the one's who probably in prison, or somethere else doing his naughty shitty things... and his bro, who's also prolly a sle, also hood's boss, driving wide, on the phone 24/7...



grrrrllzzz....

hah, im already bored of this investigation, but in short they were all into somekind of sports, or something to do with action, physical things... the same with the guys I mentioned... basketball, euro football, kick-box, carate... all the way... fitness...

oh oh, also no.1... lindyhop! very powerfull dancings... check that out on the youtube ---- it's outstandingly amazing stuff... :>

[Linas]

more more more, ask me to tell more!! ^.^

[Linas]

isn't that just beautiful??? it isn't the hardest stuff, but it's good good stuff... my friend in the middle.

[redbaron]

okay, that is indeed sweet. I wanna do it!

[anou]

SLEs: In the surgery rooms of hospitals (I guess this doesn`t help much)

I could imagine them being into team sports. So maybe you could apply your children to a sports club and keep your eyes open when the next club meeting/festival takes place... (j/k)

(lol I know, I`m useless right now.)


edit: Linas, this looks so fun! Is your friend the man or the woman?

[Linas]

man. in the white shirt only

[anou]

man. in the white shirt only

Is the girl in the middle by any chance SLE? Is it duality? (I`m starting to see dual pairs everywhere)

[redbaron]

Is the girl in the middle by any chance SLE? Is it duality? (I`m starting to see dual pairs everywhere)

really?? how can you tell? you mean just by VI?

[anou]

really?? how can you tell? you mean just by VI?

I wish! It`s more a psychological thing...

[Linas]

that guy in the middle, my friend, is SLE... not sure about anyone's else type, since i don't know any of them

[Creepy-Pied Piper]

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[FDG]

lots of male high school teachers are LSI esp. maths physical science history

SLE is harder because they often have their own business and being result types are somewhat less group minded than LSI. Mmmh. There's plenty of SLEs in my cycling team, that's probably not an easy way to get to know them tho

[Creepy-Cyclops]

ISTjs are sinners.

[Ezra]

redbaron don't you have a husband already?

You'll find them anywhere and everywhere. You might find a higher percentage if you go to a nightclub or bar, but that's just because there's a higher concentration of like-minded people in a small area.

[redbaron]

redbaron don't you have a husband already?

You'll find them anywhere and everywhere. You might find a higher percentage if you go to a nightclub or bar, but that's just because there's a higher concentration of like-minded people in a small area.

I didn't say I was looking for a husband! And I'm not just looking for males either, but I just wanted to know where any of them hang out!

[Linas]

I just wanted to know where any of them hang out!

well, how bout checking out ppl in your neighbourhood. I know at least 5-6 SLE males living vėry near my place. And there could many more... Some females probably too...

[redbaron]

couldn't resist.

[Creepy-Pied Piper]

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[redbaron]

hey Linas, is that you in your avatar? **waving** Looks like you're peeking into the forum.

[redbaron]

Cool, redbaron will find and marry her Dual! Good luck!

haha, very funny.

[Linas]

hey Linas, is that you in your avatar? **waving** Looks like you're peeking into the forum.

hi **wavesback** yeah, that's me yep, I don't have much to do with my day, and it's kinda cool here since, I'm pretty sure I'm not SEI, it's kinda cool... I wasn't sure about my type all the time... I'm pretty sure I'm IEI now...

[redbaron]

hi **wavesback** yeah, that's me yep, I don't have much to do with my day, and it's kinda cool here since, I'm pretty sure I'm not SEI, it's kinda cool... I wasn't sure about my type all the time... I'm pretty sure I'm IEI now...

your pic reminds me of my IEI brother.

[Linas]

well, what can I say.. your brother must be handsome then...

[silverchris9]

I met a few doing theater. LSIs make good stage managers. SLEs make good directors. And vice versa, but stereotypically that's how their roles would fall. I've met lots of betas in theater, actually, although more NFs than STs.

I don't really know where to meet beta STs outside theater, because theater is the *only* thing I do with my time. Places where they can achieve things, put their capacity for getting things done to good use (or at least some use).

[discojoe]

School, majoring in difficult stuff that actually makes money, like law, computer engineering, or.... economics.