Quote Originally Posted by Robot View Post
You don't need to recreate yourself to be a four. The main drive is to FIND YOUR IDENTITY.

Also you say grounded in the here and now...so freaking what? SEIs are also introverts...they can and do introspect, right?

Identity tied up to the world? What on earth are you talking about? You see a tree out in nature and now it's a part of you?

You said "I think that's related to my Si base"...It might also be related to your enneagram 9ness. The way 9s relate to their identity is the same manner in which you just related to yours.

Sums up your motivations as a person? Well she wants an identity.

And of course that statement isn't enough! I didn't say it was enough! I said it was a requirement! And I'd like to add that the word "make" shouldn't have been taken so seriously...like I said before it's more about discovering who you are.
Calm down. I'm gonna have to withdraw to reevaluate my position :-/ ... because I was thinking that 4 was more about creating different identities. Meh. See you in a few years.