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It is far better to be on your own than with someone just for the sake of not being alone. That applies to friendships as wells as relationships.

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On the contrary, very often I need to be with someone as loneliness is unbearable. On such occasions, I can’t be too picky about who the “someone” is.
i'm not sure. i think the first option first better, as i wouldn't wanna be with someone i'm not comfortable with, just for the sake of not being alone. but loneliness can be unbearable.
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To proclaim my understanding and competence on a subject, and then change my mind on it because my understanding was shown to be incorrect, it’s embarrassing for me, especially in public, as I fear it makes me look stupid. I prefer to avoid this and usually wait until I am sure of my understanding and knowledge before I start talking about it.

Agree? Disagree? Neither? Etc --
i think it's normal to change one's mind when they understand something better. i usually do not say much if i think talking about a particular subject with someone is a waste of time, or unless i'm pretty sure about the subject, not so much because of embarassment, but i prefer to listen what people say first in times like these.
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I am naturally sceptical of second-hand information and whenever possible prefer to trust my own experience to reach a conclusion about something.

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On the contrary, I think any one person’s experience – including mine – may be too narrow or limited, and I prefer to broaden it by getting as much second-hand information as I can.
2nd option.
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If I need to learn something quickly, my first instinct is to ask someone I see as knowledgeable on the subject, rather than find my own way through it in books, the net, etc.

Agree? Disagree? Etc

disagree. i prefer to read up about it.
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I have a very good idea about my level of sexual attractiveness (or lack thereof) in relation to others around me.

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Hmm, no. I am never sure about such things.

2nd choice. i
usually have no idea about such things.
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Especially in moments of crisis, I am inclined to be paralyzed by indecision and tend to wish, later, that I had acted more quickly.

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On the contrary, I am far more likely, on such occasions, to act impulsively and to later regret my decisions taken so rashly.
1st option.
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I worry far more about appearing stupid and/or ignorant among others than I worry about being awkward when dealing with people.

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On the contrary, I don’t worry too much about appearing stupid/and or ignorant – I am more likely to worry if I am being boring, inconvenient, rude etc when dealing with others, collectively or individually.
hmm. 2nd option.
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It is a very common state of mind for me to feel that, whatever I have done with regards to a task, or when doing something for someone, I could have done just one bit more.

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On the contrary, I usually tend to think I am already doing, or have already done, enough anyway – unless it is something that depends on a very specific standard that has to be met, in which case I meet it.
2nd option i think.
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I respect, even admire, people who don’t back off from confrontations, even physical ones, and who take physical risks (not necessarily at the level of some Jackass stunts, but I think you get the idea).

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Sometimes I may even wish I was better in such things, but normally I think that those who take physical risks (or risk getting into physical confrontations) easily are just being silly.
1st option
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I enjoy poetry and often wish I could write it myself.

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Poetry may be nice and all, but it’s ultimately pointless – I prefer writings that actually communicate something in a more straightforward language.

uhh, i'm neutral toward poetry.