What do ESFjs want in a relationship/their partner?

[Creepy-bg]

i agree, i totally prefer this too. but then for a female its like if you are cool with this you must have low standards and you should be demanding more or something. but if the point is to get to know somebody you'd think it would make more sense to be casual and be yourself instead of making it like an awkward job interview thing where you're showing off. if you're going to a fine dining place because you "have" to thats just pointless formality.

yes. beyond the whole food/"proper" dating thing, i just don't feel like I could ever be myself (or comfortable) in situations like that.