It's not that it was far off, it's how Maritsa said it, feeling the need to insult someone before sharing her opinion.
I think it's true as well. I don't normally initiate any sexual advances on the first several dates, but find a nice restaurant to eat at, as a fantastic date.
I'd rather hold off a bit and make sure the person is right for me. Part of that farsighted thinking. I know other ESEs have commented about waiting as well.
But c'mon... who doesn't enjoy fine food and dining!
It's fun to save up a bit of $$$, then treat my girl to something nice, like royalty.