hahaha, this reminds me of an ex workmate, SEI male around 40, ethical subtype. i'm not sure this happens to sensing subtypes. this guy was very friendly sometimes, telling different interesting stories, promising to bring and show us some curiosities like war metals or sculptures. one would have a feeling of closeness... until next time
. the other time he had the air he doesn't even know you, forgot to bring the promised things, etc. he behaved so distant that when i didn't know him enough i though i offended him, or something. some days he was scaring girls with fake reptiles or different tricks then the other day he was so sober and serious that one wouldn't even think to make a joke with him.
you IEIs are putting too much to the heart, follow ppl and judge their every "wrong" deed, and usually don't forget it until you have the occasion to confess to the guilty one. and maybe this doesn't happen because SEIs are too random and you cannot find the right moment?
we ILEs have the trump for this situation, because we never know when it's the right moment, actually we don't care too much about it. the need for something or to find out their secret is more powerful, a reason can be made up anyway
. at the same time, yeah, even if
i notice that "something wrong" with the SEI, if i'm busy i prefer things to stay like that, it's a heavenly gift to have people around without wanting something from you.
another good thing with SEIs around is that when there's nothing to talk about you don't feel the need to say something, there is no embarrassment in silence with them. you may simply ignore them, they usually have something to be busy with. if they haven't they find something to attract your curiosity and suddenly there is a subject for chatting.