I get along great with SLE's. They're simple and fun, and because I'm their Benefactor, I look out for them and can easily recognize them in crowds. But when they are in crisis, they become truly nuts and need someone to take them by the hand and lead them to a quiet room where they can sit down for a while.
Here is an example.
To see the degeneration due to crisis, confusion, and partial recovery of an SLE, and how a person starts to use his inferior function to act like his dual when his top two functions no longer are working to solve his problems, go to this page
https://www.youtube.com/user/EJArendee/videos
click on "load more" several times, until you get to his vids of about a year ago, when he was grounded and really funny and relaxed. A great one to watch is "How to pick up the types". It is both hilarious and totally true. The guy is on the ball. But then, scroll up to ten months ago to "Humbled" and "Hobo update", when things are going wrong in his life. Next, scroll back up to 5 months ago and watch "I'm an INFJ update", "Rant: My stupid zombie slaves" and "Goodbye". Finally, after he got some support (from me, his Benefactor), watch "Perfect Relationships".
You can find more on the Hidden Agenda here:
http://personalityjunkie.com/the-inferior-function/