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ENFP in LOVE: "There is no such thing as being too close"
GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS: The sphere of their close relationships are not limited to a spouse alone but also applies to a wide circle of people starting from local sports team up to the whole community. Their partners can feel the need to fight for attention of ENFP with all kinds of different people and events.
FIRST IMPRESSION: Liberated and charming, cheerful and very energetic. They can be everywhere at once, trying to impact everyone and to make them happy. As a result an ENFP can seem a little over the top, sensitive and irritating at first.
DIALOGUE: They are inclined to blurt out their opinion. Their words always seem burdened with emotions. Sometimes they are so focused on other people that they take on the other's emotions and involuntarily mimic them. Although they are good interlocutors, their enthusiasm can be excessive and tiresome for listeners.
SEX and CLOSENESS: The rich imagination of ENFP can turn intimacy into a constant goal - even if it feels like you have reached the top of a mountain (attained it). They strive for perfection in matters pertaining to sex and can maintain deep involvment, vigour and concentration, in all aspects and moments of affinity.
FINANCE: Unless they have a special gift in taking care of monetary issues they are inclined to go with the flow and do what seems to be best at the moment. For instance, they are more inclined to change their bank or open a new bank account rather than balance their check book. ENFPs are very impulsive when it comes to money: one week they are very fired up and go crazy over investments while the next week they couldn't care less and are totally indifferent. Quite often they prefer that someone else would take care of fiancial matters.
CONFLICTS: Their enthusiasm and directness often leads to conflicts. When conflict occurs ENFPs wish they were someplace else. Unfortunately, their reaction to conflict, can aggravate a situation instead of helping. For instance, they can blurt out
something sharp (barbed) for which they will be tormented by guilt afterwards.
OBLIGATIONS: Vows (obligations in terms of relationship) are very important to ENFP, although to be fair, their imagination can cause a desire to look for a perfect relationship. Although ENFPs are true to their vows their natural tendency to fantasize can tempt them with other posibilities even if they will never make them come true.
PARENTING: Parenting is in constant development. They are creative and encouraging to their children. Children are affirmed and take center stage in the family. ENFP's grow as parents with every captivating day, filled with activities and lessons.
CONTRACTS: For an ENFP it is a process and not a goal. For this reason it is very likely to be reviewed constantly. No matter how important and significant it would be it can always be altered in the light of new data.
RELATIONSHIP ENDING: ENFPs face big problems when ending relationships, more than people of other types. Often ENFP will hold on to feelings for a long time after the relationships has ended trying to figure out what went wrong, saying to themselves "If only I had done things differently....."