probably won't help, but i don't forgive. period.Originally Posted by guest
if it's about doing something correctly, and they are incompotent, they have to improve for me to forgive. if they lied to me, depending on the degree and amount of times - i may never forgive them. simply shut them out of my mind.
i suppose if i if i had to place forgivness - it's when they come to my expectations of them. they need to re-prove themselves to me in some way. otherwise, my brain simply allows them some freedom, it may be a chemical thing.