Quote Originally Posted by guest
Its too difficult for me to forgive others ( Most difficult thing for me ) .. I tend to carry grudges. Can you give some tips to forgive.

guest(INTJ)
probably won't help, but i don't forgive. period.

if it's about doing something correctly, and they are incompotent, they have to improve for me to forgive. if they lied to me, depending on the degree and amount of times - i may never forgive them. simply shut them out of my mind.

i suppose if i if i had to place forgivness - it's when they come to my expectations of them. they need to re-prove themselves to me in some way. otherwise, my brain simply allows them some freedom, it may be a chemical thing.