Originally Posted by guest
if you bring the past into the future/present too much, then you only relive the past, and stagnate. I'm no master of this.................
In fact, I am somewhat of a hardass on people who don't show progress....... well, I have been in the past.
I would, especially for an INTj, suggest detachement, and zen, too. You only need to concern yourself with yourself, most of the time...