Quote Originally Posted by guest
Its too difficult for me to forgive others ( Most difficult thing for me ) .. I tend to carry grudges. Can you give some tips to forgive.

guest(INTJ)

if you bring the past into the future/present too much, then you only relive the past, and stagnate. I'm no master of this.................

In fact, I am somewhat of a hardass on people who don't show progress....... well, I have been in the past.

I would, especially for an INTj, suggest detachement, and zen, too. You only need to concern yourself with yourself, most of the time...