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    Quote Originally Posted by Suomea View Post
    I don't know all that much about the enneagram or the theory behind it, but from the little I know I'd say 9 would most likely be the type I would most want to be with....
    So you admit that you don't know much about the Enneagram ... and yet you have an opinion about what is your dual? Pathetic and disgusting.

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    Phaedrus, when you say type 6 is ethical, do you mean it is a type which is *specifically* for ethical ego types?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    Phaedrus, when you say type 6 is ethical, do you mean it is a type which is *specifically* for ethical ego types?
    Type 6 is leading. You can draw your own conclusions from that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phaedrus View Post
    Type 6 is leading. You can draw your own conclusions from that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Phaedrus View Post
    Type 6 is leading. You can draw your own conclusions from that.
    Ok. I have some questions. I think I can see where the Fi would come into it, but perhaps it could represent an Fi valueing type as opposed to just Fi leading? Also..following from that, in terms of the actions of a 6, one could come to there actions through reasoning via T or F ego, do you think? (I take it you don't-ie as you say type 6 is Fi leading)

    Complicater-complexer, who you've VI'd as an ISTp, has himself as an enneagram 6. I'm pretty sure he is a 6, and he seems to know enough about enneagram to be correct in his typing. He's probably been typed by practitioners also.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diana View Post
    You don't know the difference between ethical and logical.
    Do you realize that you are an idiot?

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    No, indeed they are not. Read some of the descriptions and you'll see that.
    Another proof that you are an idiot. You haven't read them. You don't even understand the type you are supposed to be. Pathetic.

    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    Indeed I do, much better than you do.
    No, that's impossible. You should know better, but you don't. So what shall we do about that? Nothing? Are you prepared to live a life in ignorance? Yes, I guess you are.

    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    There is all the difference in the world. Yes, some ISFjs may be 6s, but that by no stretch of the imagination means all are.
    It is a well-known truth that the imagination of ISFjs is limited, but I didn't realize that it was that limited.

    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    Take your own advice and start by reading the Strat... description of ESIs.
    Is that the only type description you have read? It is not bad, but there are other descriptions you should study too before you can call yourself an expert. And how many times have you read it? Well, that is not nearly enough ... Go back and study, and stop acting like a moron.

    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    I have read all of the type descriptions of ESIs. I identify VERY strongly with the Strat. one in particular and they do not say they are boring NOR over-cautious, so shove it up your ass.
    You fucking pathetic and disgustingly ignorant idiot. So you have read all those type descriptions and understood ... nothing!?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops View Post
    Ok. I have some questions. I think I can see where the Fi would come into it, but perhaps it could represent an Fi valueing type as opposed to just Fi leading?
    No.

    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops
    Complicater-complexer, who you've VI'd as an ISTp, has himself as an enneagram 6.
    The ISTp has no place in the Enneagram, so it doesn't really matter where you put him. But an ISTp that wants to be a 6 is a pathetic creature.

    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclops
    I'm pretty sure he is a 6, and he seems to know enough about enneagram to be correct in his typing.
    He does not know enough about the Enneagram, that's for sure.

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    He's probably been typed by practitioners also.
    Irrelevant. Many of those Enneagram practitioners are as bad as most MBTI practitioners when it comes to understanding their own theory.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phaedrus View Post
    Do you realize that you are an idiot?


    Another proof that you are an idiot. You haven't read them. You don't even understand the type you are supposed to be. Pathetic.


    No, that's impossible. You should know better, but you don't. So what shall we do about that? Nothing? Are you prepared to live a life in ignorance? Yes, I guess you are.


    It is a well-known truth that the imagination of ISFjs is limited, but I didn't realize that it was that limited.


    Is that the only type description you have read? It is not bad, but there are other descriptions you should study too before you can call yourself an expert. And how many times have you read it? Well, that is not nearly enough ... Go back and study, and stop acting like a moron.


    You fucking pathetic and disgustingly ignorant idiot. So you have read all those type descriptions and understood ... nothing!?
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    diana... let him go.

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    ::smirk::
    And this, too, shall pass away.


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    *I'm* a 6, that's how I test as. Diana is very different from me, no way she is a 6 too. I am very over-cautious and want to be protected and made to feel safe... and I play the victim in order to do this and dual-seek. Diana? Not so much.

    Go fuck yourself, Phaedrus. You are really pissing everybody off lately because you post things that just aren't true. Whatever you need to do to get yourself under control do it, but stop trying to hide the fact that you are an emo drama queen by feigning that you care about 'just the facts.' Whatever. People who say that all the time were most likely either abused or molested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Diana View Post
    You realize saying that does not make it true?
    Of course. Do you realize that it doesn't make it false either?

    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    This is merely an attempt on your part to hide the fact that you have nothing to back up your assertations. I have read them, and I understand the type. I would be in fact a first-person source for information on the type if you're interested.
    I have studied ISFjs for more than a decade. I know them quite well.

    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    Proof man, proof. You want to find a description that backs up your claims? (anything but hitta's descripts please) And none of this taking things out of context bullshit either.
    So you dismiss what I say just because I don't provide a proof for it? Do you realize how utterly stupid such a behaviour is? You are not interested in finding the truth, you refuse to study the phenomenon yourself and insist that some other person(s) do all the hard work for you. The truth is in the empirical material. You can check the truth of my statements by yourself. But to dismiss them as false just because you don't bother to analyze and read is a totally unscientific behaviour that deserves no respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves View Post
    Go fuck yourself, Phaedrus. You are really pissing everybody off lately because you post things that just aren't true.
    My statements are true, so your comment is irrelevant.

    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves
    Whatever you need to do to get yourself under control do it, but stop trying to hide the fact that you are an emo drama queen by feigning that you care about 'just the facts.'
    As usual, people are totally missing the point. You will probably never get out of your ignorance.

    Quote Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves
    Whatever. People who say that all the time were most likely either abused or molested.
    Your knowledge of human nature is certainly very limited and prejudiced. But that's just the way it is. The common people seem to love their ignorance. Fascinating phenomenon ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Suomea View Post
    Are you lonely btw Phaedrus?
    LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by Phaedrus
    No.
    I agree that it's frequent for leading types to be type 6. But clearly you don't understand how T and F reasoning can both be involved in creating a principle, ergo it doesn't always have to be an dominant equating to type 6
    The ISTp has no place in the Enneagram, so it doesn't really matter where you put him. But an ISTp that wants to be a 6 is a pathetic creature.
    I thought you said type is inborn?

    He does not know enough about the Enneagram, that's for sure.
    How is it sure?
    Irrelevant. Many of those Enneagram practitioners are as bad as most MBTI practitioners when it comes to understanding their own theory.
    You make it out that your the only person who can type someone from reading an enneagram description.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phaedrus View Post
    The ISTp has no place in the Enneagram, so it doesn't really matter where you put him.
    LOL!
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    Phaedrus...

    If everyone were to agree with you, would you be happier then?
    And this, too, shall pass away.


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    (There is no such thing as an enneagram dual. As such I also disagree with Phaudrus' incessant drive for correlations and so on)

    Nevertheless,
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    9s, most definitely. 9w1 over 9w8 probably I think

    I can also imagine 1 as a type I can be compatible with, but we both have to be very healthy

    least compatible: 3, then 8
    Sort of similar to that.

    9w1s much more than 9w8.
    1s, although they need to be ethical rather than logical
    2s, somewhat

    3s, probably not.

    least compatible: Absolutely no chance with 8 or 5. Probably not 4s or 7s.

    My " " " dual range " " " would be between 9w1 and 2w3.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FlameReborn View Post
    Phaedrus...

    If everyone were to agree with you, would you be happier then?
    My happiness or non-happiness is not dependent on what other people believe or don't believe. And my feelings are totally irrelevant here, and it is also totally irrelevant whether people agree or not. The only thing that is relevant is the truth of what I say. People who agree with me for the wrong reasons are of course also idiots.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phaedrus View Post
    My happiness or non-happiness is not dependent on what other people believe or don't believe. And my feelings are totally irrelevant here, and it is also totally irrelevant whether people agree or not. The only thing that is relevant is the truth of what I say. People who agree with me for the wrong reasons are of course also idiots.
    I can see how what you are saying could be considered true. But if it doesn't matter what they think, why do you attack? if you eally don't care what they think and you know you're right, then what do you get from this? What is the end result?
    And this, too, shall pass away.


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    Quote Originally Posted by FlameReborn View Post
    I can see how what you are saying could be considered true. But if it doesn't matter what they think, why do you attack?
    Because false statements should be exterminated. The truth matters, people's opinions don't. Opinions are irrelevant, but true and false statements are highly relevant.

    Quote Originally Posted by FlameReborn
    if you eally don't care what they think and you know you're right, then what do you get from this? What is the end result?
    To defend what is true, and attack what is false.

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    After reading through it all, I think I'd get along with sevens the most, and maybe sixes as well. Not sure I could with eights.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Phaedrus View Post
    Because false statements should be exterminated. The truth matters, people's opinions don't. Opinions are irrelevant, but true and false statements are highly relevant.


    To defend what is true, and attack what is false.
    All very well, but only truth is true, no? So only truth can be real, and so there is nothing to attack.
    And this, too, shall pass away.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Phaedrus View Post
    These are the most natural and/or most common Dual pairings in the Enneagram:

    1s and 2s
    3s and 4s/5s
    6s and 8s
    7s and 9s
    HEEEEEELP!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Orest Reinn View Post
    HEEEEEELP!
    So you don't understand anything? Well, that was expected, so here is a clarification for you.

    1s are ISTjs and INTjs (both leading). 2s are ESFjs and ENFjs (both leading). The Dual of an ISTj is an ENFj, and the Dual of an INTj is an ESFj. That wasn't too difficult for your brain to process, was it?

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    So you are hypersensitive, if you treat that as critique.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Orest Reinn View Post
    So you are hypersensitive, if you treat that as critique.
    I treated it as a redundant comment that would do more harm than good. So I clarified the truth to avoid misunderstandings.

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    that would do more harm than good
    Not as much as your irony.
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    The bottom line on Socionics/Enneagram correlations is that people who are same type aren't exactly the same in every way. Also, Socionics and Enneagram typings are not based on the same exact criteria. In other words, the thing that makes someone a particular type in one theory is not necessarily the thing that determines his/her type in the other.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy View Post
    The bottom line on Socionics/Enneagram correlations is that people who are same type aren't exactly the same in every way.
    That is true -- but trivial. No one has disputed it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    Also, Socionics and Enneagram typings are not based on the same exact criteria.
    Correct. It is very obvious that their typing methods are different, that they come to conclusions about people's types from different perspectives and by different means.

    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    In other words, the thing that makes someone a particular type in one theory is not necessarily the thing that determines his/her type in the other.
    False. The conclusion does not follow from the premises. The premises are true, but your conclusion is false. As always, you confuse criteria (of meaning) with reference.

    You can look at an object using a certain method to detect the object, to identify it as what it is. You can also look at the exact same object using other methods and even giving the object another name. Most people will not recognize it as the same object, because they know it under one name (and therefore assume that if something has another name it can't be identical to the object they are looking at). They identify the object using their preferred method(s) of identification (and therefore assume that if you are using other methods of identification you cannot detect the same object they are identifying).

    The essence of each type is out there in the world. It is independent on our theoretical explanations and our methods of identification. We happen to (think that we) know this essence (but we could be wrong), and the essence is described in Socionics.

    Two people that are the same type can not be different types in another system/model unless this difference coincides and is recognized as a relevant difference in Socionics.

    For example, an ISTj and an INTj are the same type if we only look at their leading function, but they are different types if we group them according to clubs, where the ISTj is a Pragmatist and the INTj is a Researcher. An ENTp and an INTp are the same type if we look at the clubs, where both are Researchers, but the ENTp belongs to the group of Extraverts and the group of Ne leading types, whereas the INTp belongs to the group of Introverts and the group of Ni leading types. They are also different types if we look at the temperaments where the ENTps is EP and the INTps is IP.

    We can group people in many different ways, but the groups (types) in the Enneagram MUST NECESSARILY reflect type relevant differences according to the dichotomies used in Socionics. Otherwise the Enneagram types would not exist, because they would not reflect the real essences of the types that are independent of our theories but described in the true theories. And since we believe that Socionics is a true theory, we cannot allow another theory (such as the Enneagram) to contradict it.

    So for every type in the Enneagram we must explain why -- according to which groupings in Socionics -- two different socionic types can be different types in the Enneagram.

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    Bump. 8w9, but 6w5 is a close second.

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    6s for me. Maybe because I'm a 1-6-2 so we can understand each other without being too similar.

    Phaedrus is wrong. The only definite "enneagram dualism" I have observed is between 5s and 8s. I know two happy 5/8 couples, one dualism one supervision. And it doesn't seem to me that many people want 5s or 8s.
    I also think 7s are overrated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    I also think 7s are overrated.
    TAKE IT BACK.

    I haven't noticed any type-wide correlations between enneagram type and getting along with others anywhere. It seems to be more of a personal thing (and instinctual variants play a big part as well.) I've dated 5w6, 6w5, 1w?. Currently I'm dating a 4w3 sx and we get along famously (but he's also SEI, so there is that.)

    The one type I absolutely cannot get along with is 3, though, and I've heard rumors that 3s and 7s are supposed to get along great. I just really, really can't stand them a lot of the time. Usually because of how they present and maintain their self-image. One of my good friends is one, but we have wuite the love-hate relationship where we hate how the other does anything.

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