The bits from the first quote I posted sounds particularly like Ni PoLR. Pre-planning things and expecting a consistency in follow through in order to evaluate the status of the relation
On another note, the music video for "Thinking of You", I saw the other day, looks like an LSE-EII relationship, or at least caregiver and infantile judging by how they act around one another, though I don't know how much of it was her own influence"we'd be having a conversation by text or by email and then he'd just disappear. For like three days! It would drive me crazy 'cause I'd be like, 'Where'd you go? I thought we were making plans for this weekend?'"