Well when I met my dual, who is SLE, I don't have any memory of him until the first time he asked me out, which I think is odd .

We had been in the same class for a good 5 months, then it took me anither 4 or 5 months to develop a crush on him...and nothing changed, we didn't talk more, I just started to like him.

So I think it can be very slow...

But I have recently met another SLE, and I felt the connection right off, and we hadn't even had a conversation (and it wasn't just lust ), I think it was different this time because I knew he was my dual...

But the first time around the feelings were very slow to develop, but once they did it was crazy -I am so into you!- (good times, good times!).