I find that duals come to me easily, only because I've learned to open up and be social. I usually make contact after a period of time, prior to which the ENFp made the initial contact, which is later forgotten, and I don't quite find that too weird. I have always believed for all my socionics years that the extrovert breaks the ice first. And it is natural for them to glaze me over, being beings with an attention span that almost rivals that of a goldfish. And I do understand that most of the time, I'm just too cool and sexy for their in-the-clouds limbic system.

But one thing I've noted, whenever I open my mouth to speak in class, the ENFps can't help but get highly aroused, hot and bothered, or just interested to the extent of salivating. That is something that always keep me going. Otherwise I'd just ask God to take me to heaven; this life ain't that worth living without the delta quadra.