Quote Originally Posted by Diana
Quote Originally Posted by Zeia
But what does anyone have to gain from that? Flashing a smile or being sincere dosnt push anything forward. Its not my buisness to go around making everyone feel good about themselves, small talk only creates a bond between two people, and frankly, I can live without that.
Wow. We're just on entirely different wavelengths. I am definitely, conclusively without a doubt not anything resembling an INTj. Why wouldn't you want to connect with other people? I guess I don't get this.
Its not that I dont want to, I'm indifferent to that, but that I simply cant. I dont relate to to most other people and no one really understands me or relates to me. The indifference is caused by a lack of emotion towards it, it dosnt help me in any useful way. Connecting to other people dosnt stimulate thought or anything in my head, it only excercising my emotions. Thus the friends I do have force me to think.