Can't say I think of people in terms of being plus or minus. But I don't think people with her personality are autistic. I think you just don't understand what goes on inside their heads. There could be any number of reasons for such behaviour. How do you know what her motivations are? How do you know what her private feelings are? How do you know what she regrets and what she doesn't? Must her feelings be written all over her face for you to recognise that she has them?
You seem wary of anyone who doesn't go around with an enormous grin on their face.
"Language is the Rubicon that divides man from beast."
I'm confused by this thread. I'm --- though so....
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