Hmm.. this is indeed a difficult one. I think you probably won't find the answer to your type immediately, but rather it'll become clearer as time goes on. My advice at this stage would be to consider ESFp vs. ENFp and see which one feels right to you. If, after some time, you still don't really fit that well into either of them, then it would be worth, IMO, considering ISFj vs. INFj and seeing if either of those fit you. But for the time being, I think SEE vs. IEE would be worth considering, since I'm fairly confident based on what you've said that you have Fi in the ego block. Whether it's leading or creative Fi remains to be seen, but I think exploring the types I've mentioned here might help. Like I say, it probably won't be an immediate answer and at first it might even feel a bit strange to consider yourself as type XYZ (I know when I first started on the idea of being ILI, it took a bit of getting used to) but I think if you truly are one of these types, then if you consider the idea for a while, perhaps a couple of weeks or so, it'll probably start to make more sense. Of course, others may have alternative opinions but this is what my thoughts are at this stage.
You know, it's just occurred to me that this is the first time I've properly attempted to type someone online beyond a single post. I'm sure you must feel rather special now