Do yourself and others consider you as physically attractive ?

[machintruc]

I mean, not only by saying "physically attractive", but also "beautiful", "cute" or such.

You can see that I made separate checkboxes for SELF and OTHERS.

If neither yourself and others consider you physically attractive, check the third checkbox only.

Please be honest.

[Lotus]

I only voted that others consider me physically attractive, because I only consider myself attractive sometimes.

My opinion changes a lot.

[Wynch]

I think I'm attractive. Perhaps not stunningly gorgeous or anything, but I think I look pretty good.

And I know there are plenty of others who find me attractive. I get checked out on the street quite frequently, says my best friend. I never notice *shrug*

[xyz]

fat heads.

I'm pretty average. No biggie, just means I gotta get more charm.

[Wynch]

Loki, you were red shorts guy, right? You were definitely cute

[xyz]

I'd be lying if I said I wasn't insecure. Most of the compliments that I receive are on my looks... not my personality, not my intelligence, or other qualities... :-/

It's understandable. I mean, physicality is only one part, and it's the fastest part guys can assess, obviously. I think we (guys) need to stop complementing so much on looks. Like others have said, it's nice but ultimately shallow (duh!)

Loki, you were red shorts guy, right? You were definitely cute

The red flowery ones? Thanks

[jessica129]

Everyone thinks of themselves as attractive.

[xyz]

Why are you embarrased Starfall? To me you were just being honest.

[strrrng]

Everybody thinks of themselves as attractive.

This is true (psychology has proved it) and it can be very annoying.

I only voted that others consider me physically attractive, because I only consider myself attractive sometimes.

My opinion changes a lot.

lolz

[Mr Saturn]

I believe that I am an 'alright catch', I mean I think it's good to have the confidence to say 'I'm not half bad!'.

Even if you're not widely known as the 'hottie', who cares?

For me, I think that some bit of looking good is the security and confidence in yourself.

So, yeah - I'm not half bad.

[JuJu]

This poll's math adds up to appox 166%... how the hell?

[strrrng]

I believe that I am an 'alright catch', I mean I think it's good to have the confidence to say 'I'm not half bad!'.

lol @ "alright catch" haha

I voted yes for myself and others, but will not say anything more, at the risk of annoying ppl (lolz)

[discojoe]

Everyone should think of themselves as attractive.

[Khamelion]

im a "self-masterbator" so my answer(s) is(are) probably obvious.

[snegledmaca]

I don't consider myself attractive, and neither do others, but luckily I'm not ugly. So I'm average in terms of physically attraction. Which is good enough for me as I have yet to have any problems caused by my physically attraction.

This poll's math adds up to appox 166%... how the hell?

It's a poll with multiple options, you can check multiple boxes.

[strrrng]

Everyone should think of themselves as attractive.

I suppose...for pragmatic purposes. It's just when they start expressing that belief to others when it is inaccurate...yea

[discojoe]

I suppose...for pragmatic purposes. It's just when they start expressing that belief to others when it is inaccurate...yea

Sure, it's not nice when a fat ho thinks she's hot and dresses like a prostitute, but acting and dressing like a slut are different from thinking of yourself as an attractive person.

[Creepy-bg]

Fuck you I'm a 12.





I don't think I fall within the generally accepted parameters of physically attractive but I have charm and a generally lighthearted irony about it so I can do fine if I want to. Most of my problem is I don't give a shit... so I don't try to be attractive/keep myself up. I know I'm capable of it though so I can sort of draw confidence from that.

[Creepy-bg]

and for what it's worth... pretty much everyone is physically attractive to somebody.

[xyz]

and for what it's worth... pretty much everyone is physically attractive to somebody.

even to you poo bear.

[Creepy-bg]

even to you poo bear.

[xyz]

...a sickness of the mind... for you see, Jimmy didn't know that Mike... was a homosexual.


FUCKING LOL


(BTW, in the very begining of the movie, they drive past a place that still exists near where my parents live, but now there's a highrise bank and a little plaza there instead of JUST houses. And the place that's called "fish - shrimp - " etc still exists) Weird.

[Creepy-bg]

If I didn't have acne, I might consider myself more attractive, but I've had a number of good-looking, some not as good-looking, and probably some females find me attractive even though I could be a hell of a lot more feminine, but, eh...I am what I am. It's not like I try to look hawt or anything. I think a lot of it has to do with how I come across (polite but generally cold, if that makes any sense).

yeah acne sucks... my face didn't clear up until my mid 20's.

[Lotus]

This is true (psychology has proved it) and it can be very annoying.



lolz

He only laughs at me when I'm completely serious.
I really do find myself attractive only at certain times.So stop laughing, asshole.

[discojoe]

Fuck you I'm a 12.





I don't think I fall within the generally accepted parameters of physically attractive but I have charm and a generally lighthearted irony about it so I can do fine if I want to. Most of my problem is I don't give a shit... so I don't try to be attractive/keep myself up. I know I'm capable of it though so I can sort of draw confidence from that.

and for what it's worth... pretty much everyone is physically attractive to somebody.

Today's feel-good answer brought to you by bionicgoat.

[Rubicon]

I don't think it's such a cut and dry thing. I mean I can be physically attracted to someone who I would say is objectively pretty plain. And I'm not talking about getting to know someone better and gradually thinking they're better looking than they are. I mean immediate physical attraction. I think it's more about what sort of energy the person is producing and whether you are attracted or repulsed by it.

Within reason though.

[Creepy-bg]

...a sickness of the mind... for you see, Jimmy didn't know that Mike... was a homosexual.


FUCKING LOL


(BTW, in the very begining of the movie, they drive past a place that still exists near where my parents live, but now there's a highrise bank and a little plaza there instead of JUST houses. And the place that's called "fish - shrimp - " etc still exists) Weird.

Is that Inglewood? my little brother lived there when he was going to OTIS.

[Creepy-bg]

I don't think it's such a cut and dry thing. I mean I can be physically attracted to someone who I would say is objectively pretty plain. And I'm not talking about getting to know someone better and gradually thinking they're better looking than they are. I mean immediate physical attraction. I think it's more about what sort of energy the person is producing and whether you are attracted or repulsed by it.

Within reason though.

exactly...

[xyz]

Yeah that's the very beginning of Inglewood.

[strrrng]

He only laughs at me when I'm completely serious.
I really do find myself attractive only at certain times.So stop laughing, asshole.

That doesn't make sense. Attractiveness is, for the most part, a static quality. Out of curiosity, at what times do/don't you think you're attractive?

[Kim]

Fuck you I'm a 12.





I don't think I fall within the generally accepted parameters of physically attractive but I have charm and a generally lighthearted irony about it so I can do fine if I want to. Most of my problem is I don't give a shit... so I don't try to be attractive/keep myself up. I know I'm capable of it though so I can sort of draw confidence from that.

Nah, you're hot. Just deal with it. (no, I am not kidding)

[Creepy-bg]

Nah, you're hot. Just deal with it. (no, I am not kidding)

you're making me blush again :wink:

[Ms. Kensington]

I only voted that others consider me physically attractive, because I only consider myself attractive sometimes.

My opinion changes a lot.

yeah i sometimes think my pics resemble a less objectively attractive you

in general i think i do have a lot of confidence in my attractiveness, but physically I think I am not what a majority would consider attractive, and i think part of it has to do with that i am a female (and i'd be lying if i said the lack of response to my pictures here didn't make me feel that i "must be ugly"). In that sense i am pretty much clueless about what is attractive to the masses and look for feedback from as many as i can, but i do understand symmetry and other artistic concepts about attractiveness in that sense. I have features that are not considered feminine, like a small nose, large eyes. I have a button-ish nose but its still not like.. small or shapely or anything. My eyes are smaller and sometimes i think my lips are objectively attractive, like makeup artists and the average joe on the street say they like them. I have strong eyebrows and my skin has gotten worse so i have a few spots and blemishes, and i am overweight. Still, i see that there are many fat, spotty, masculine women who have sexual and/or marital partners, so i always think that they, and i, might be attractive even though i am fat, spotty, and masculine.

On the other hand, i do think that i can be attractive and sexy with the proper clothing because i have a chest and an ass.

[Ms. Kensington]

I don't think it's such a cut and dry thing. I mean I can be physically attracted to someone who I would say is objectively pretty plain. And I'm not talking about getting to know someone better and gradually thinking they're better looking than they are. I mean immediate physical attraction. I think it's more about what sort of energy the person is producing and whether you are attracted or repulsed by it.

Within reason though.

I think that machintruc meant something that cuts all of that out. Maybe the definition changes over time, but i think one thing that scientists have figured out is that there is a correlation between symmetry and attractiveness in the human face. There's also something like a beautiful face set of proportions, one of which faces fits it is Elizabeth Hurley. Of course you're right that being attracted to someone is highly subjective, in that it will vary from person to person. But I would think that if youre heterosexual you would find some things to be objectively a requirement, like the opposite sex organ you have?

[Rubicon]

On the other hand, i do think that i can be attractive and sexy with the proper clothing because i have a chest and an ass.

That's good to hear.

I didn't see your pic btw. Is it still up?

[Ms. Kensington]

That's good to hear.

I didn't see your pic btw. Is it still up?

lol. no. i use that for research purposes only. i can pm you though.

[Rubicon]

I think that machintruc meant something that cuts all of that out. Maybe the definition changes over time, but i think one thing that scientists have figured out is that there is a correlation between symmetry and attractiveness in the human face. There's also something like a beautiful face set of proportions, one of which faces fits it is Elizabeth Hurley. Of course you're right that being attracted to someone is highly subjective, in that it will vary from person to person.

Yeah, but he didn't ask whether you were actually physically attractive - just whether you and other people have found yourself to be attractive. So that suggested to me that he was after subjective opinions on your attractiveness rather than the actual truth. But maybe I'm being overly pedantic.

But I would think that if youre heterosexual you would find some things to be objectively a requirement, like the opposite sex organ you have?

Haha. Yeah - hence the 'within reason'.

[Rubicon]

lol. no. i use that for research purposes only. i can pm you though.

go for it :-)

[Ms. Kensington]

Yeah, but he didn't ask whether you were actually physically attractive - just whether you and other people have found yourself to be attractive. So that suggested to me that he was after subjective opinions on your attractiveness rather than the actual truth. But maybe I'm being overly pedantic.
Haha. Yeah - hence the 'within reason'.

yeah.. but to me the "physically" part of his question made it seem more to the objective (many people agree) interpretation.

[Rubicon]

yeah.. but to me the "physically" part of his question made it seem more to the objective (many people agree) interpretation.

I think deciding on what is physically attractive is just as subjective as deciding on what is attractive personality-wise. Providing they're healthy and in good shape, I think you could find 16 random people of different physical types and everyone would disagree over who was the most attractive. A lot of the celebrities aren't really that stunning - but they take care of themselves so they look the best that they can look. I think most of the people we encounter every day would look just as attractive as most celebrities if they put a bit of effort into taking care of themselves.

But I'm thinking of people's potential to be attractive - maybe that doesn't count. :-)