How do you know?Originally Posted by qbsirena06
How do you know?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
lol.
EIE, ENFj, intuitive subtype.
E3 (probably 3w4)
Cool ILI hubbys are better than LSIs any time!
Old blog: http://firsttimeinusa.blogspot.com/
New blog: http://having-a-kid.blogspot.com/
It's definitely not a family movie or anything, but it's pretty interesting. I think it touches nicely on some of the themes in this thread actually (as far as the 'fakeness' of Fe/Fi). Paul Rudd kind of overdoes an impression of infantilism in some respects, but overall I thought it was worth seeing.
Moonlight will fall
Winter will end
Harvest will come
Your heart will mend
Why would you say something that isn't true? Are you a compulsive liar?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
I know another Fe base girl who has the same complaints about me as you do.
I still love ya though.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Because I know someone that loves tea.How do you know?
lol, you ain't too bad yourself.I usually end up forgetting all about you when I start saying "all SLIs always do that!"
EIE, ENFj, intuitive subtype.
E3 (probably 3w4)
Old blog: http://firsttimeinusa.blogspot.com/
New blog: http://having-a-kid.blogspot.com/
no. But almost all Fe comments can be interpreted the wrong way when you try to assume it's the whole truth. and SLIs are good at that.
EIE, ENFj, intuitive subtype.
E3 (probably 3w4)
Old blog: http://firsttimeinusa.blogspot.com/
New blog: http://having-a-kid.blogspot.com/
I guess I've gotten as used to as I can to the Fe thing.lol, you ain't too bad yourself.
Still trips me up at times though
Actually, I had to learn what "Fe explosions" actually really meant in order to save my sanity....and my voice.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
LOL. Is that a fact or an emotional comment?
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
I've heard some Fe types say stuff like...
"I hate you!"
"I wish you'd just leave."
"You're such an asshole. I don't know how I put up with you."
"I don't know why we're even together anymore."
"You're so stupid and annoying!"
...etc. when they're super pissed. Fi valuing types (especially Te types) see these as indications of the state of the relationship. Fe valuing types seem to be more likely to understand that they're just expressed frustration and didn't mean it literally.
I'll tell Peter to check it out, and if he downloads it I'll watch it.
Yeah, it must be their preferred "matter-of-fact" style of communication.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Yeah those fucking hurt!
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
You decide. No wait, you can't.....
I agree with Joy. With socionics I've learned otherwise, but my natural inclination, when hearing those kinds of stuff, is to think "aha, the mask has slipped. That's what s/he really thinks. Very well then".
, LIE, ENTj logical subtype, 8w9 sx/sp
Yeah, I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who said stuff like that. I need ethical stability (Fi), and Fe is too... well, dynamic.
It must be your preferred style of communication=sarcasm.Yeah, it must be their preferred "matter-of-fact" style of communication.
They get pissed when you call them on it, too. Like if someone says that they don't like talking to you because you act a certain way (being too matter-of-fact or "cold", for example) and you say "well then why do you talk to me?" they can get exasperated and say they don't know, or something like that.
I wonder what things look like from their end of things if you assume that they meant it and stop talking to them for the most part. Will they wonder why you're so reactive or sensitive or difficult... or something? Or will they just assume, similar to what Kristiina said, that it's better that you didn't talk if that's what it turned into?
I could certainly see how a Fe type would see this as being cold, especially if that person was going through a rough time or was upset with you over something else or whatever. I could see how it could even be seen as a betrayal, now that I really think about it.Maybe that's more of a Te/Fi perspective though?
Disclaimer: I'm not saying that if a situation like this occurs, it automatically means that the person who said that is a Ti/Fe type. I think Te/Fi types can say stuff like that too, but they probably mean it in a less "dynamic" way when they do.
+1000000000000000000000000000 I couldn't agree more.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Same.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Fe: just because someone was pissed at you yesterday, doesn't mean they'll be pissed at you today.
haha.
Fe is both incredibly warm one second and incredibly cold the next. I don't like dealing with it, but if I have to I guess it's not so bad as long as I keep in mind stuff like "Oh, he doesn't really mean that" or "She's just being emotional."
The hard part is if I don't deal with these people I kinda lose the touch real quick.
Edit: HK, my problem isn't that they say exaggerated things like "I hate you" or "I love you". My problem is they throw around "I hate you's" just as easily as "I love you's". Now how's that for confusing? I just assume they're full of bullshit on both accounts.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
thank you!!!
Constant exposure to strong Fe can fuck someone (like me) up very bad.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Those were not directed at you, you know.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Dude it took me quite a fucking while, all the while my head was utterly confused.
Starfall:
Usually they say it with such seriousness and fervor that I honestly can't read their tone, words, OR body language. It totally fucks me.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
How do you know?
I suspect this is more accurate than anything else.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
Something sort of similar to my example happened relatively recently with someone I was talking to via IM, and I don't talk to that person very much anymore. It isn't because of that conversation though, and it isn't because I don't want to talk to that person or because I'm upset or anything like that... I just don't sign on to yahoo very often anymore. I'm not sure if it would be a good idea to express this or not.
What he said:
I think it has a lot to do with the individual's level of wellness. Unhappy people (or those with a lot of inner conflict) are going to express Fe in less happy/healthy/balanced ways.
I use common sense.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Yeah, I need some of that.
$50
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
I 'm gonna give it to you.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
Where? And can we work out some kinda deal?
For free?
No. You gotta pay el naturel.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
I can't compete on free!
........... how the fuck do we get so derailed? SIRENA STOP.
"Those who make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities..."
- Voltaire
How about some Fe? (back on topic LV)
No thanks. I 'll rather have some tea.
“Whether we fall by ambition, blood, or lust, like diamonds we are cut with our own dust.”
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