situations like this demonstrate how you can make an argument in any direction socionically. i mean you could say it was about Si valuing behavior or you could say it's that you value Te. or you could say that you value Se, goal directed activity. or you could say that you value Fi more than Fe. it starts to become really circular after awhile.

fwiw i've always thought you were infp, from VI and because some of your posts remind me of infpman.